Ki te te tangata i muri, me pehea ki te whakahihi? Ka rite ki te wahine!

Tatou i te reira, i te tahi taime e mea te tangata mea tika ranei kaimahi i aua mahi, me tinihanga e whakapoauau me whakakahore wahine. hiahia ia ki te ata iho te pee'utari, kia mutu ai katoa, engari e kore e mohio pehea. Hei tikanga rite te wahine, ataahua, me te takoto kahakore hoki - e te te ara pai i roto o te āhuatanga tuke. A me pehea ki te mahi i te reira, e ue'i koe nga tohutohu pai kotahi tekau.

1. I te tahi taime whakaaro kōtiro e taea ki te pānui i to ratou feruriraa i te tangata, ko te hoki tetahi take "matau ana" e whakaaro reira whaitake ranei. I roto i te meka, kia mohio ai ia i nei tona whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te whakahihi? Ka rite ki te wahine kia matau ki a ia e tona whanonga he manakohia i hoki koutou me te mea e kore. Ko te ara pai ki te tiki te mea e hiahia ana koe i tou tangata tenei. Ki te e ia te tahi mea e hoha'a koe, korero ia e pā ana ki taua mea, a ka whakamārama he aha arata'i te reira koutou ki whakama. I roto i te heke mai, ka tamata ia ki te karo i te tupuraa o mahi, kia koutou pouri.

2. Hoatu ki a ia mo te whakapai ake i roto i te māramatanga o te āhua o ki te whakahihi. Ka rite ki te wahine, e mohio ana koutou e taea e te utu i roto i te whare moenga. Ko taea e koe te pa ki noa te reira, ka ataata. Ka taea e tohu iti korero te rota me whai he whakautu nui.

3. penei ia ki te faatura. A haamana'o noa e koutou te tangata - e kore te tamaiti. A kihai ia te te nanakia. tangata pakeke he ratou mau mana'o, me te whakapehapeha - tane. A faatura i te reira, ara, ki te whakaaro koe e kore ia e tika i te reira. I roto i tenei take, ka tino hohoro te whakatutuki koe māramatanga tahi.

4. Ki te mataara koe faaipoipo i roto i te aroha, e kite koe i te katoa i roto i āhua o te mahi aroha te wahine. I roto i te tuhaa maha ko reira he ngāwari. Ki te hiahia koe ki te hanga hinga te tangata, pea e hiahia ana koe te tahi mea ki te mahi i.

5. Whakarongo ki ana tohenga. Te nuinga o nga tangata wā take tino whaitake "rorirori" whanonga.

6. I te tahi taime, e tīmata wahine ki te whakaaro e he pai atu i o ratou tangata ratou, noa no te mea e kore ratou e mahi "ara wairangi" rite ratou haurua. he tūranga taua kia arahi ki te meka e ka ite koe kaitiaki o te tamaiti. Koutou whakaaro mahakai, oro korokē, āta engari he pono arahi ki te tautauā o kare tangata ki a koutou.

7. Kia mahara e kore e koe tona rangatira. Ko te tikanga matua o te pehea pohehe te wahine tenei. Ki te whakapūtā koe te tangata te mea ki te mahi, kei te tono koe mō te raruraru. O te akoranga, he nui o koutou whakaaro me mau mana'o, engari e kore e hoatu a reira ki a koutou i te tika ki te kōrero ki a ia i roto i te reo nui.

8. I te tahi taime tangata i te whakaaro marama o te pehea tino he wahine ratou kupu ranei mahi. Engari i te fehi'a, me kino ki te kōrero e pā ana ki, ki atu ki a ia e hanga ana e ia a koutou ite rite kähaki tona pono i roto i o koutou kanohi. Ki te he faitotonu ki te mutunga te whakahaere, kia ara kitea koe e etahi o koutou raruraru - kaua e nui ake i te whara iti.

9. Ki te homai e koe he tangata ki te matau aha kia meatia e ia, ka pehea ki te tikanga rite te wahine i roto i tona perception, me te whai koe ki te.

10. Kotahi te mea ohie e e maha wahine wareware: tono i hanga i roto i te tikanga faka'apa'apa me whakaute, mutu mahi mea te mea ratou whakaaro kino ranei. Ki te kore tonu e mahi koe e, tamata. kia maite miharo i pehea nona koutou tangata ia koe.