Ngā mātua nei kawea mai koe i roto i tou tamaiti: Genius pirinoa ranei?

Maoro, i reira he he fakahehema ki te whakaiti i nga kaimahi pakari me te hua i roto i te pirinoa hohe. Otiia pea ite torutoru iwi e tika pā mātua e rua te whakahōhā, me te otinga ki tenei raruraru.

Tuatahi, e hiahia ana ahau ki te hoatu tetahi tauira tino pai o te ora ki a koutou. Aita i maoro a'e, i eke ahau te arā raro. noho ahau. kite haere ahau ki raro, i te pereoo i te taitamariki, hauora, me te pai-kakahu wahine. I roto i te kotahi ringa hiri ia i roto i te whārangi A4 kirihou o pepa ki te whakaahua o te tamaiti, me te, ahua o rite te tātaritanga. I roto i tetahi - he putea pango i runga i tona pokohiwi putea hiako tau mo te moni.

A i konei ko reira he iti noa'tura, a vahi ara pai¬ko ui te hariata o pāhihi ki te āwhina ia moni. I roto i te whānui, he paerewa mo te Moscow lēlué he tangata rawakore ngaio. whakaaro tonu ahau o te iti o e rima i roto i te rite katoa ki a ia pūāhua, e rua o nei ka kite ahau i tetahi diners tika i roto i te kawhe. Na reira, whakatika noa te whakaaro: i taea kua hanga te tangata akoranga i runga i tono mea ana mana ngaio i roto i te arā raro.

A tino ngā ko e enei wahine i roto i te arā raro hoatu moni. Mai i tetahi wāhi o te tirohanga, he he tohu pai tenei - e hiahia ana te iwi ki te āwhina. Ahakoa te raruraru, me te whakatairanga o katoa hype whaikörero nga pāpāho, e hiahia ana matou iwi ki te āwhina me te āwhina. He pono whanui wairua Russian.

Otira tera tetahi e, he aha e whai ki te mahi i ki te kaupapa o te tuhinga tenei katoa. E mea ohie. Ki te mahi i tenei, kia titiro a ki te tahi atu taha o te moni o tenei āwhina. Ko te tangata e homai moni ki tenei wahine - te āwhina, ranei whakaaro e āwhina. Ko te tangata e tono a e tango te moni kei te mau riro te haamauraa e taea tonu te reira ki te tango moni, kahore imiraa i te reira.

ie Here, puta te whai ake: he tangata e kore e hua i e kore whakarato tetahi o te uara ki to koutou ora ranei, e hoki kia utua e koe mo reira. A pai, ki te tino haere enei moni i runga i te maimoatanga o te tamaiti o te tangata. Na, i te iti rawa, ka kia mohio ai koutou hiahia ki te āwhina i. I roto i tetahi take, e kore e te raruraru matua faatiti'aifarohia. kitenga i te tangata e taea e ia tetahi, me te kia utua hoki reira.

Ano, ka hoatu koe moni ki te tangata i taua, kite reira te tahi atu mau taata. Ka rite ki matau koutou, he ma'i pee he tauira kino, a taea e tētehi te tīmata ki te whakamahi i te reira. A ki te titiro koe tata ki a koutou taiao, ka kite koutou i e te pāpori "tono mea" Kei te tino pai te whakawhanakehia me tango maha ngā.

tauira Non-mahino ko te to'u tupú e whakarato ngā mātua roa nui. hoko ratou waea, me te utu mo ratou ako, hoki he ratou pukumahi whakarite i te mahi pai, me ētahi atu I roto i te ano, he tiaki e tika ana katoa mo tona tamaiti tenei. Ko reira he kotahi ira: te nuinga o nga matua kahore e hoatu e te tamaiti (pe ko e hā tona tau) ki te mahi i te tahi mea i roto i hoki mo te awhina me te tautoko ia tonu e tango i te mau metua.

he mea, engari ka rite ki te faaitoitoraa ki production-kore tenei katoa. I raro i te hanga ko te tukanga, ka homai he tangata (hua, hokona) te tahi mea o te uara ki ētahi atu. kia te tahi mea whāinga (pērā i te pouaka whakaata he motokā ranei), a pea he ratonga e tika ana tenei. Engari me te mea faufaa, no te mea, rite ki te tikanga, ko te iwi ngā whakawhitinga i runga i nga mea e tika ana i roto i te tikanga ki te ora. pea te reira i te moni, a pea noa te tautoko te tangata i te wa e tika.

Na, ko te hapa matua maha ngā mātua - ki te mau tonu te whakaaro e he iti, ngoikore te tamaiti, a kihai i mohio me pehea ki te taea ki te whakarato i te tahi mea o te uara mo ratou. Pono, e kore te reira. Ka taea e te tirotiro i te reira e koe i roto i. A pono ahau ki a koutou, ka kitea e koe i te ohorere ahuareka. He tino pakari ngā tamariki. Rawa, ki te hoatu e koe a reira ki a ratou ki te whakaatu. Na te mua i roto i te ora i te pai.

Hei tauira, mohiotia ki te kaitito katoa tuhituhi Mozart tona whakaatu tuatahi i roto i te 4 tau! I te 6 tau, ia ko tona hapu haere katoa i runga i Uropi, a whakamana i mua o te Royal. E te ara, he wāhi rawa ngā: i roto i te noa'tu o te rongonui o ratou tamariki (Wolfgang i hoki he tuahine pūmanawa) me o ratou matua ki mahara e ngā tamariki he - he, te tuatahi o nga mea katoa, tamariki ko wai e waiho tona tamarikitanga, me, o te akoranga, ngahau me te takaro o ngā tamariki. Na reira, kaiwhakatangitangi taiea, me te tino Wolfgang maha haukotia ana akoranga ki te tākaro ki te ngeru ranei ea horo ê i roto i te ruma i runga i te tihi o te kakaho a tona papa.

Na Thomas Edison i rite wawe rite 10 tau o te tau aroha o ngā matū , me te hanga i roto i te whawhe o tona taiwhanga tuatahi. E hinaaro nei i te moni mo ngā, ka Edison he kaihoko o ngā nūpepa me monamona i runga i te tereina i roto i te 12 tau. I roto i te tikanga e kore e ki te ururua wa, i tukua e ia he taiwhanga matū i tona van tikanga, a kawea atu ngā i runga i te tereina. I 15 tau, ka hokona e ahau i runga i te take o te press tā i roto i te pereoo mea ki te whakaputa i tona niupepa, e hokona nei ki pāhihi. Ka taea te whakaaro poto o Edison me tona itoito faahiahia rite te nama ki tona whaea, he kaiako kura mua, e haere tonu ana te mātauranga me te whakangungu i te kāinga, i muri i peia ia i te kura.

He philosopho pai-mohiotia me tahatai o te rau tau rua tekau, L. Ron Hubbard, e tīmata ia e whakaako ana i 17 tau, me te atu ratou akoranga o te natura tangata i roto i te taipitopito whakaaro take nui o te mātauranga me te whakangungu, i roto i tona kaiārahi ki te whakapai ake i te ora o "Te Ara ki te Harikoa" Kua tūtohutia te whai ake:

"Kia mataara mō ngā tamariki (ara te iti). Whakarongo ki te mea korero koe tamariki e pā ana ki to ratou oraraa. Tukua ki a ratou te āwhina koe. Ki te kore e meatia e koutou tenei, ka whai ratou ki te pehi i te waipuke o ratou tikanga o fatongiá.

e kore e taea e te tamaiti ora, kahore te aroha. He rite ki te hoatu aroha ratou aroha i roto i te hoki te nuinga o ngā tamariki. "

He mea nui ki te matau e tetahi tamaiti noa nei ako kua ki te haere me te kōrero, pea tino nui e hiahia ana ki te kia āwhina. Whakamātauria ki hoatu ia mahi kuware, ka whakaatu pehea ki te whakatinana ratou. kia kia horoi te reira i te whare, mau atu te paru, horoi i te motokā, ranei ara peita he taiepa i roto i te whenua. whakaatu Main pehea ki te mahi i reira tika, a ka mahi i te reira tahi pai noa, e whakaatu ana me te korero he aha, me he aha e mahi koe. Ka rite ki te hua, ka taea ki te mahi i reira koe tō tamaiti.

Ano, i ētahi wā, e hiahia ana nga tamariki ki te hanga i te takoha ki te hapu o tona auahatanga, engari e kore e tino e ka waiho reira faufaa ki a koutou. Hei tauira, ki te pai te tamaiti ki te kanikani peita ranei. Ka meinga e koe hari ia, ki te ui ki a koutou ia ki te whakaatu ki a koutou i te kanikani hou. korero ranei ia e kore koe e whai pikitia nui i runga i te taiepa ki te whakapaipai i te ruma, a e hei tona mahi rawa i roto o wahi. Na whiwhi koe e kore anake te hari me te āheinga o te tamaiti, engari ano hoki i te hoa pai. Na nui atu, whakaputa e koe nui te reira mo te pakeke huru maitatai tangata: mahi pakeke, hiahia me te kaha ki te whai wāhi ki te rōpū e tautoko ana i te reira.