He aha ngā pātai taea ui te hoa, a kore e taea e e

He tokomaha whakapono ara whakapono kore ko e aroha i waenganui i nga wahine, me te kore e taea e. Rawa whakapono nga tangata i roto i reira. Well, kahore. Ona hoa e kore anake e taea te kōrero e pā ana ki o ratou hoa, kōrero e pā ana ki te tawhetawhe me ētahi atu tito noa. He hiahia i roto i te mau oaoa me mamae o ia atu ratou, a wehewehea pono ratou. Ko ētahi wā he e maia ki rawa te wahine, me te korero e pā ana ki te mea e waiho reira e tika ana ki te pupuri i puku. He aha ngā pātai taea ui te hoa, a he aha pai e kore ki te ui?

Hei timata ki, he aha te pai atu i ki te ui:

- he hononga piri roa, rawa e pā ana ki sex, take ira tangata, o nāianei, me hoa o mua, te hunga i aroha, tane;

- i runga i nga moni, penapena, kupuhipa, me ētahi atu, ina koa i roto i aua wā, ki te mahi koe i roto i te wahi kotahi, reira pohehe kōrero te whakaaro o te mauahara;

- raruraru e kua tae mai ki a koutou i ngā rōpū tuatoru, e kore e hiahia ana ki te "taahiraa i runga i te wahi nui," rawa ki te kore ko te tangata tangi hiahia ia.

He aha ngā pātai taea te ui he hoa:

- Ka taea e koe te ui e pā ana ki runaruna, huri i te reira i roto i taua whai koe te tahi mea i roto i te noa, e tauturu te reira ki te tiki i tata;

- te matapaki i tona kakahu, ahua pīrahi, a i roto i te whānui ahua pai, he reira pea ki te kia pai ki te whakarongo ki runga ki to koutou wahi, engari, nui atu, e kore e overdo te reira;

- ki te kōrero e pā ana ki te tamariki, no te mea hoki ratou ki reira te mea tonu he kōrero ki te korero ki, taea e koe e pā ana ki te mau paroita, i roto i te ngaro o ngā tamariki;

- ui ki te kōrero e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te whakapau o koutou hararei, i reira he tata kahore he take ki te pumau e pā ana ki te mea ahua o ngā pātai ngā taea e koe te ui, mo te rēhia - ko reira tonu haamana'oraa ahuareka;

- e pā ana ki te tunu kai, te matapaki e rave rahi tohutao reka.

hoa tata

He kaupapa kūpapa e pā ana ki a ratou e taea te kōrero ki te tangata, ara ki te hoa. I raro i enei huru, kotahi ira nui. He mea tika ki te wehewehe i ngā take kia kōrerohia ki te hoa pai, a he aha ngā pātai ka taea e koe ui i te tangata e kore e koe tata rawa. Ko te hoa pono taea e koe te kōrero e pā ana ki nga mea katoa, kahore he okotahi. I te tangata rite-whakaaro e kore e whai ngaro i ia atu. Tata kotiro ranei wahine katoa kua he hoa pai.

He aha pātai hoa e whakaaro koe kia pai ki te ui:

- ka korero ia, ka ia anake koe te pono e pā ana ki to koutou pūeru, ara, ki te kore te reira tino pai, no te mea o te tetahi atu kitea he uaua ki te whakawa e pā ana ki taua mea;

- Ko reira taea ki te ui ki ta ki te mahi i roto i te āhuatanga ngā pā ana ki to koutou ora whaiaro, rite mōhio ai o ngā whanaketanga me te taea hoatu tohutohu whāinga;

- Ka taea e te runanga ki runga ki te pai rawa o te homai ki whanaunga, ka korero ia te tahi mea tika, no te mea e matau ana ia he rota fakatāutaha;

- anake ka korero ia ki a koutou i te pono e pā ana ki o koutou concoctions, a kore e waiho kia ngāwari ki te whakamoemiti katoa, tohu ki ngaahi tōnounou, ka āwhina i ki whakatika te āhuatanga mā te whakarato tohutao whai hua;

- ki te anake te hoa tata te āwhina koe haere i te wa whaitake, ka tohutohu he aha te pukapuka he tino utu reira ki te tirohia i roto i te mea ki te ahua o te waiata whakarongo ki.

Ki te he tino tata te hoa, he mea - rite te tangata whenua. Ka taea te whakawhirinaki ia. A, tino pea, e kore e whai ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea pātai ka taea e koe ui i te hoa, no te mea ite i te wairua Māori i ia atu.