He aha te tahuri i te kanohi matapo ina kihi ratou?

Toutou rongo te pātai o te aha katia te kihi o koutou kanohi, no te kihi aha tahuri te kanohi matapo ranei?

E kore te mea hou te pātai, engari he mārama whakahoki ki reira he tata e taea ki te tiki, ae ra, ka kati ratou kanohi i kihi katoa ko te kore. Kotahi ariā aha tata ratou kanohi ina kihi - te reira i te peu kahuki whaiaroaro ranei. Pea ko reira katia ki kanohi kihi reka, me te aronganui. e kore e ētahi iwi whakapono to ratou te tika ki te kati koutou kanohi, no te kihi, no te mea me ratou aroturuki i te āhuatanga a tawhio noa, ara i roto i te kihi. Tēnei tautuhinga te nuinga o roto i te iwi ki te āhua kaha, haamau titauraa teitei i runga i ngā āhuatanga katoa o te ora, me o ratou pānga, me te ki atu te iwi, me te ahau fakafo'ituitui. Ko tētahi atu wāhanga o te iwi hiahia ki te kia hoatu ki tino ake ongo, kia tika i raro i te mana o te kare, na whiriwhiri ratou ki te kati o ratou kanohi i kihi. I te tahi taime tetahi me te taua tangata i roto i te mau huru rerekē kihia e te tuwhera, me ētahi wā ki ona kanohi katia.

Na, i muri i te katoa, he aha, ka kihi i te kanohi matapo?

Ka taea te faataa i tēnei i roto i ngā o te whaiaroaro. Kihi tata koutou kanohi, no te homai i te roro tenei whakahau ki te tango i te akiaki waho e ārai whiwhi kare pai i te kihi. I roto i ngā whaiaroaro, te mahi tino nui o te tinana tangata, ko te kaha ki te fakafanaú me Kihikihi mua, me e hāngai ana ki tenei. Na reira, homai te whakahau ki te momotu i mooni te roro. I te wa ano i roto i te kihi titorehanga, i reira te mea he vaivai o whakarongo, mo te take kotahi pea.

Ni'ai ki te toi.

tamata Singapore ahorangi ki te hanga i te kupu whakahoki ki te pātai - he aha, ka kihi i te kanohi matapo? E ai ki a ia, mo tenei reira e toru take. Ko tētahi o ratou, i roto i ana kupu, he mea he faaiteraa a Hona. Noa kamo tuku iho, te tiaki i te hinengaro tangata i te tuwhene o kare. Ko e tika ana ki te meka e i tenei momeniti te roro he kikī tino rongo tenei. Hei tango i te reira ranei ki te whakahaere i to tatou tinana maoritia whakamahi katinga kanohi. Ia kōrero hoki e kati tatou i to tatou kanohi, no te mea kahore ratou e hiahia ana ki te kite i whiri tona mata hoa no o tona whakapakoko e toru-ahu kore te mohio a i roto i te kihi ngākau. Ka taea e tatou kite i te tia, e kore ahuareka tonu ki te pānui i, takiwa hoa o te mata, me te maoritia tutakina aku kanohi i roto i te tikanga ki te karo i tēnei. Ko tētahi atu kōwhiringa, rite ki te ahorangi, he aha, ka kihi kanohi tata - he banal tāú tangata. Kati ana kanohi i roto i te kihi, e kore matou e hoatu tou hoa i roto i te mau huru e pau te, e kore e whakaititia, i te reira ki te whakahaere i te whakaata o tana kare i runga i te mata.

Ui aha, ka kihi, kati whakaturia o ratou kanohi. Takitaha o tatou formulates tona ara ake. Ko, te tīmatanga, korero e pā ana ki kihi, whakaaro tatou e pā ana ki romance me te hiahia taikaha. e kore tūtohu ngā kaimātai hinengaro maha anake kihi ki te hoa engari tutei ano ki runga ki a ia i roto i te kihi, pera i reira na, he taea reira, i tona whanonga, ki te ako i te rota e pā ana ki a ia. I te wa ano, kaimātai hinengaro tohe e te kihi ki o koutou kanohi katia, rite ki te tikanga, whaiāipo me te āhua tauiui noa. E ahu ratou ki tino momotu i mooni, kawea atu ana ki te ao o kare me mau mana'o, i waho whakaaro e pā ana ki te heke mai. E ai ki ngā tatauranga, te hunga kihi, kahore kati ana kanohi, tokoiti, a, ara, 10 anake%. Ngā kaimātai hinengaro whakamana taua iwi te mau huru e whai ake nei: tika, me te Mana, no te mea ratou e taea e tonu me i raro i huru katoa ki te whakahaere i te āhuatanga, me reira ki ariu i te huringa iti i roto i a ia.

whakaturia Tauākī me ia o ratou, ki etahi whānuitanga i tautohetia. Noa'i te kotahi te mea: ki te kihi hoki tatou ko rite nui rite kai manawa ranei. Me koe he rota, a maha kihi, ko te kaha tino taiao anti-depressant rite.