He reta aroha ki te kotiro, ka āwhina i whakahauora te hononga!

e kore e maha takatu tika ite e he tino pai nga kotiro ka hoatu e ratou he momo o kupu reka. A e hiahia ana ratou ki te mahi i rite maha rite taea. Wahine e noho ana i roto i te wharekai, e tatari ana mo te pahi i te tape'araa pereoo, korero ki a ia e pā ana ki ngā trifles, e kore e tino pea mau noa koutou whakaaro ahau e pā ana ki te mea ia ataata ahakoa, ranei, mo te tauira, me pehea faahiahia kakara tona kakara. Ko ki pehi taua whakaaro ki a koe e kore te mea e tika ana - he mea e tika ana ki te whakapuaki ia ratou. E kore e taea e koe te whakapuaki anake taua whakaaro, ara pai e waiho ki te tukua atu he reta aroha ki te kotiro. Otiia ki te kahore koutou kei i tata, ka haere me te kupu reka ohie. Whakapono ahau, ka kia pai ki te whakarongo ki a ratou tetahi tangata o te sex wahine, ara, ki te kahore e koe mōhio ki.

Tino maha, ara i roto i nga whanaunga o te whānau takirua tīmata ngā mua, e kia hoatu tatou te tahi mea ki te waimeha. Ki te hiahia te tangata ki te whakaatu i to ratou aroha i roto i tetahi atu ara, te pukapuka aroha ki kaumeá ranei wahine ko te kōwhiringa pai. E kore noa e, e tona tuhituhi rawa nui te wa, pera he reira ano hoki te tino whai hua. Ko reira pai kore ki te noho i runga i te reta kotahi, a ka tuhituhi e rave rahi kōwhiringa. Ko te kupu e kore noa maere koe tou aroha tetahi, engari ano hoki ki te korero e pā ana ki te mau mana'o.

Hei waihanga i tētahi reta aroha ki te kotiro, e kore koe e whai ki te noho i te rota o te wā me te kaha, ara ki te mea he tino uaua i mawhiti tuatahi. He mea tika ki te matau i te torutoru parau tumu niu. Tuatahi ti'a ia tatou ki te mohio e te whakamahi o tapaina a he houhou, te kore e kia he ia. I tua atu, kia kōrero te pukapuka ki tona aroha i ingoa, engari waimeha reira ki tūāhua pērā i "reka", "aroha", "tino", me ētahi atu Ko hoki ia rātau e kore e tika, kia rite ki te tuhituhi ki a koutou he reta aroha ki te kotiro, e kore te tuhinga mōhiohio.

Tuatahi o te katoa, i roto i tona kupu, e hiahia ana koe ki te faaite i to outou aroha ki te kotiro, ki te arotake i ona hua, he haapoupouraa, kia reira mārama e he motuhake, me te ahurei ia, a ka tikanga koutou hononga hei rota ki a koutou. Ka taea e koe te tuhituhi te āhukahuka i rotarota, maere ia atu ara ki reira. I tua atu, ka taea ki te haamana'o i te mau ohipa i nga ahuareka mo e rua o koutou. Ko te kupu e homai e koe ki te matau, he aha ta koutou whakaaro e pā ana ki te hunga taime.

Kaua e wareware ki te tāpiri i roto i ana kupu reta i runga pehea he reira nui hoki koutou me te mea whakaaro tonu koutou e pā ana ki reira. Kaua e wareware e pā ana ki tona ataahua, he mea tino nui mō te kōtiro. Kaua e whakaahua te mea tika, a kia nui ki tokomaha. Whai wāhi i tetahi huānga me ngā āhuatanga o e anake mohio koutou. Kaua e wareware ki te kai me te kīanga akakoroanga. Ko nga wa katoa te kotiro he pai ki te whakarongo ki a ratou.

Ko reira utu ki te mahara e te whakaaro o to koutou reta aroha , ko te ki te kawe i ki te kotiro e te aroha ia, ka hiahiatia. Kia he rite te pukapuka, e hiahia ana koe etahi wa ki te anō-tai'o reira ano ano. Ki te hiahia ohorere te tahi mea ki te whakatika i, he reira pai ki te īmēra anōtia i muri i hanga i te whakatikatika katoa. Kia mahara tino taea ki te whakahauora i te hononga, ki te whakaara ia ratou ki te taumata hou, me te ki te whakaatu tika te nui aroha koutou ko taua aroha karere tahi e te tahi , me te poihere ratou whanaungatanga.