He aha koe e taea e ui i te taata: Tips hoki mau tamahine taitamariki

Kua tonu kua whakamā, me te pawera Girls, tautautefito ki he taimi mai te reira ki te kōrero ki te takoto ritenga. Heoi, he maha i reira he āhuatanga me haere mai te wahi i te kaupapa i te wahine, no te mea hiahia ia ki te matau, e taea e koe te ui i te taata ki te kore whiwhi ki te tūranga rorirori, me te ki te whakatutuki i tēnei whāinga.

Tino maha i roto i te uiuiraa i reira e te tahi mau tatari a roa e hiahia ana koe te tahi mea ki te whakaki i. He nui tenei ki te mau tonu i te whakahaere, me te whakahaere i te katoa.

He aha koe e taea e ui i te taata ki te kore titiro obtrusive? Kia tamata o ki matau. Ko te kāwai o ngā take whakahauanga ngā hunga e pā ana ki te ngākau nuitanga tonu, mahere, me ngā manakohanga o te tangata. He he he rārangi tauira o ngā kaupapa e taea te whakamahi i roto i te ngana ki te tīmata i te aparauraa:

1. Ngākau nuitanga. Ka taea e ahau ui e pā ana ki te mea he hiahia te kaikorero, he aha ratou manakohanga. Ki te he mōhio o tenei kua te kotiro, ka taea e koe ui etahi onäianei. Hei tauira, ki te matau koutou, e aroha te taata whutupaoro, i ui e pā ana ki tona kapa tino, ranei ki te matapaki i te kēmu motuhake.
2. He aha koe e taea e ui i te taata e pā ana te mau parau tumu te ora? He i roto i tēnei kāwai, me ngā pātai rawa whānui: e pā ana ki te auhoaraa (tane me te wahine), e pā ana ki te mahi, e pā ana ki te wahi pai ia ki te noho te wā noa.
3. I tēnei wā, ko te ara tino rongonui o te kōrero - pāpāho pāpori. He aha ki te ui i te taata "i roto i te whakapā", ranei te tahi atu whatunga pāpori? Mai kore koutou e kite i te interlocutor, ki te hanga kōrero māmā. Ko te pātai i roto i tenei take e taea ana ki ngā ngākau nuitanga me ngā āhuatanga noa. I roto i te parau tumu, te moni, tetahi, tika e kore e e urutomo rawa.
4. A ape i te mau uiraa tika, no te mea e ite te taata rite te whakamātautau. Ka taea e koe te whakatikatika i te pātai i roto i te tono, mo te tauira: "Korero mai ki ahau te tahi mea e pā ana ki koe."
5. He aha koe e taea e ui atu i te taata? Uru te kaupapa o te ora rā, i roto i ngā ngākau nuitanga puoro ngā ranei manakohanga mō kiriata e taea te kōrero. kaupapa hoki ngā - te taiohitanga me te tamarikitanga. Boys me te kotiro rite ki te kōrero e pā ana ki tenei kaupapa, a ratou ara tonu te huru. O te akoranga, i ngā taipitopito mohio tuatahi kia karohia, engari ki te matapaki i te mahinga rorirori rawa e tika ana.
   

He hoki ngā take e e te tikanga pai karohia. Ko te tātau tuatahi - ex-kaumeá me te wahine. Otiia ki te mea kei te tangata e waiho te tipu tuatahi o tenei whakahaere tūpato - i roto i te hononga e kore e haere mai ki te mutunga, ranei kahore he rite mo te tetahi hou ia ranei.

He aha te mea ngā ki te ui i te taata? Ko te pātai i roto i tetahi take e kore e pa ki utu. E kore e rite ki te aparau i te reira ki te kotiro tangata katoa, engari rawa ia ki te reira e te tahi mau fifi i roto i te rängai pūtea.

Ki te kāwai o te pahekeheke hoki ngā te kaupapa o ngā raruraru tane. Ki te mea kua matau koutou i roto i te akoranga o te whakahaere, kia whai ratou tetahi, e kore e ui ki te korero ki te kōrero. Ko te kino tenei kaupapa, no te mea he tangata ki runga ki a koe ki te pana. e kore e tangata ahu ki te whakaatu i to ratou ngoikore. Ki te tika, korero koe.

Na tino nui, me te mahara reira te wahine e korero ki te tangata - e hiahia ana koe ki te taea ki te whakarongo. Eé aroha noa i te reira. I roto i tenei take, ka tukuatu ratou mea katoa ratou e hiahia ana, hohoro me ngā. A ka whai koutou i te whai wāhi ki te tātari i ō rātou whanonga, me te whiwhi ki te mohio. He aha te mea ia - hōhā?!