Me pēhea te ki te aukati i te kotiro he ataahua?!

e kore e tonu whanaunga Romantic rite e hiahia ana tatou. Tineia te whakahaputia, ka ngaro moni i roto i te iwi taitamariki timata ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te mutu te kotiro. Ko reira anake i mawhiti tuatahi te mea te reira ohie. Otiia i roto i te hono mo'oní kore e pera ohie mea ... roimata, kiripiro me ētahi wā ohorere rēreretanga anaanatae maha haere tahi tukanga wehenga. Taime atoa taea ki te whakaiti i enei scenes kino, kahore i ahatia ki te mohio me pehea ki te maka i te kotiro.

Tuatahi, kia hanga a tino e he tino pono koutou hiahia tenei, ka pouri i muri e kore e whai ki a ia. Well, ka me whai koe i te itoito no te tango i te rumakina. I te wa ano e kore e tatou wareware te tikanga koura o te pekanga: "Maka te kotiro kia kia e kore i mau i te reira i te mauahara ki a koe." Whakapono ahau, Ko te tino nui tenei. pakanga faufaa, raru, me te whakahe ki a koutou te iwi i te wa nei e kore e hiahia ana tetahi. Mau tonu whanaunga hoa i muri i te wehenga rawa uaua, engari ka taea. A, ki te whai koe i te taata whaitake, e te aha tamata koe ki te mahi i. I roto i tenei take, kia mau i roto i te ngakau e he reira ki runga ki a koutou, ka whakawhirinaki ki runga ki pehea e kia nui te mamae me te mamae ki te māngai o te takoto ataahua. Te he ka tawai ona kore utu reira. Ko reira māmā ake i tenei kahore tetahi e.

Ehara i te mea e tika ana, ka whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te maka te kotiro, e ngana ana ki te kitea huarahi ki te mawhiti i te aparauraa tika ki a ia, a ki te mahi pera, kia rite ki te kupu haere, "i muri ia." A ahakoa e kore te mea ohie, whakahaere haavare ki tona tête-à-tête "mata ki mata" ranei - he ara pono ki te whakaoti i te rapanga. Ako ki te kia maia, tonu me nga wahi katoa. A kahore he mea pehea kino ia koutou ex-kaumeá, pae hopea e mauruuru ia i te reira. Tawainga me kīanga o te riri i te wa - e kore te kaiāwhina pai. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakamōhio i te kotiro e takoto te take i roto i te e mawehe ia, me e nagging ia koe tika ka. He pai ki te "tango i te hit" ka faataa ki a ia e takoto te take anake i roto i a koutou, a ka he te reira i kahore tetahi he i roto i te pekanga. He pai ki te tuku whakaaro te kotiro e koutou - e kore he pumau te tangata, a ka waiho koe pakeke hoki ki te wa roa mau tonu te hononga ki tetahi o nga mema o o te sex ataahua.

A feruri e pā ana ki nga nekehanga me te kupu i roto i te whakatau me pehea ki te maka i te kotiro. Na kia mohio ki te whakatau hoki ratou e founga ki te hanga i te tukanga o te pekanga: rave i te reira hohoro, whakamōhio noa ia o tona whakatau u ki te waiho ki te hoatu ia wa ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki ki te korero ki a koutou, ka ngana ki te marama ake nga kupu kino i ratou mahi ranei: ngā tohu e whakamarie ana (hei tauira, stroking ringa), ngawari kupu , me te pera i runga i. ko tenei te wahi i koe ki te whai ki te whakatau hoki koe. he uaua tohutohu i roto i tenei āhuatanga ki te hoatu, e kore e kore te iti rawa hoki i pai kino ia te reira ki te mohio e pā ana ki o koutou āhuatanga hūkokikoki, me ngā āhuatanga o te kotiro.

Ko te whakaaro ko te ki te maka i te tangata, otiia e kore e waiho e koe? Na he torutoru tohutohu iti. Kia a mo katoa mahino mau e ki te e whakatau koe ki te waiho, i roto i tetahi take e kore e taea kia tumanako o te kotiro e ko te reira tonu taea ki te hoki mai. kia tino riria e koe ia e te mea kahore he ara hoki a kore e taea e, a e koutou u whakatau me te taui ore. Ki te te kotiro i roto i te tumanako ka wā karanga koutou ware me te ware e kore te mea e tika, maka te ngongo - me. Kōrero ki a ia ata, ka marie, engari wa katoa kia ahau e mohio ki a ia i taua i tenei ra - kei te hoa noa ki a ia a koutou. I te tuku ki te whakatau, me te ata, engari mārama i korerotia ai e tenei he taea me tino memeha. Tō u me te u - koutou kaiawhina mateaki i roto i tenei take. Neke atu i te wa, te tumanako hoki koutou ex-kaumeá ngohe ka mutu nga piiraa.

Well, i roto i te mutunga e hiahia ana tatou ki te mea e tango i te whakatau u, me te whakaaro kia wehewehe hononga ki tona aroha, whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te maka i te kotiro ataahua. Ae, ko reira ataahua. kia Tetahi mahi o te tangata tūturu rite taua. ka waiho te reira 1: 0 i roto i to koutou manakohia ...