Me pēhea te ki te ora, ki te ora koe kahore kaha? Hea ki te kitea te kaha ki te haere i runga i ora?

Ko te Whakapuakanga o ngā Tika Tangata Universal te kupu te herekore tika ki te ora, engari wahi tohu e ko te reira i te hopoi'a. I runga i te ringa kotahi, he iwi noa ki te hoko o to ratou ake ko, i runga i te tahi atu - ki runga ia ratou ngoi ana te iho pāpori, te mātauranga, te karakia me te ake. Hei whakahoki i te pātai "aha ki te mahi, ki te kahore he kaha ki te ora?", Kia aroha mai e kore te mea, pera ohie.

Ko te taha ki te pae varua o te raruraru

Ko te āhuatanga o te whakamomori - he raruraru matatika nui, kua meinga nei tata taea mai, rite kua mutu karakia ki te whai i te pānga taketake i runga i morare tūmatanui.

I mua, ko reira he rota māmā. E pā ana te hahi Karaitiana ki he hua'tu kino whakamomori, ki te kahore whakarongo ki nga take o ratou i te mau melo e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te ora, ki te ora koe i reira he kahore ope. Kei te whakapono te reira e kore e te tīariari i te hara he nanakia atu, rite nga matini whakamomori me te patu tangata, me te hepohepo, a i roto i te tua, whakaputa i te hara ia o te taea o te ripeneta. e kore e whakamomori i kite i te mahi tanumanga, a kihai tanumia i roto i te whenua tapu ki tenei ra.

State o titiro i mea

Mai te ao Pākehā, i me te nui, hanga ki runga ki morare Karaitiana, kitea huru motuhake ki te whakamomori i roto i nga ture e pā ana o whenua maha i reira kua roa i whakaaro whakamomori he hara toihara.

Pea ka maere te tangata, engari i roto i te UK kua mutu reira ki te kia taua anake i roto i te 1961, ka takoha maha tono o kaiwawao tika tangata Paremata ki te whakahou i te ture e hāngai ana. Whakatika ki tenei wāhi mo te whakahoki he ki te pātai "pehea ki te ora, ki te ora koe i reira he kore ope" taea utu he pai nui, me i te mutunga o te rautau tekau mā iwa - noa i hoatu ki te mate na roto i te iri. I roto i Ireland whakakahoretia anake criminalizing whakamomori i roto i 1993 (!) Tau.

tūnga hinengaro

Na ki taua fīta'á kia tūpono anake i roto i Africa (Ghana, Uganda). Heoi, i roto i te huru tūmatanui ki te whakamomori he rangirua me rerekē rawa whānui - i te whakaaetanga i mua ki o ratou iteraa.

i whakaaro ai hoki te wa roa e te raruraru ko: "? Me pēhea te ki te ora i runga i, ki te kahore he kaha" āhuatanga anake hoki te iwi hinengaro kino. Tenei stereotype he ora, me te pai i tenei ra. Kia i Harvard whakahaere he ako fokotuu psychiatrists hanga he tātaritanga i runga i hauora pūkete raraunga. tukua tūroro katoa i whakamomori, engari kihai korerotia kaiuru katoa i roto i tenei whakamātau.

Ko nga hua whakakitea: ka rongo i te take o te mate i ki nga tohunga, kei te pāngia e ratou ki disorders hinengaro i roto i 90% o te wā, me te mea e kore te reira mohiotia - 22 anake%.

I roto i te take hauora mō te whakamomori e huaina korekore nui - whakaaro suicidal tae mai e neke atu i te 70% o tūroro, a pā ana ki 15% tango nganatanga e tika ana.

Norma - te ariā o pāhekeheke

Ko te pātai o te maitai, i roto i te parau tumu, e taea te whakaaro tuwhera. Na reira, ko te karanga i te ngakau: "Me pēhea te ki te ora, ki te ora koe i reira he kahore ope?!" e kore te tikanga e te tangata - haurangi. I roto i te mutunga, mo take o nga tatauranga whakamomori kore ko rawa haamaramarama te āhuatanga.

Ko te kupu, kia rite ki te ako WHO, he unknown nga take o 41% o whakamomori, 19% e hanga ai i roto o te wehi o te whiu heke mai, 18% - e tika ana ki te arepurepuraa whaiaro, te taua tau (18%) - e tika ana ki disorders hinengaro.

Ko reira nui% 1.2 anake o te iwi e mahi i te whakamomori no o puke lahi, kia e kore e taea te i titiro te take rite te puranga, engari i roto i te meka ko reira te tautohe matua, tangi i roto o te puni mateaki ki tangata whakamomori.

I roto i tenei te faatura, euthanasia mahi taa'eraa i roto i te whenua Pākehā tokomaha ki paerewa ora teitei. Hei tauira, i roto i Belgium, tata riro te tika ki te ake i te patu ki te awhina o tākuta wahine taitamariki e kore nei e uru 30 tau o te tau. Ko korekore te take - e kore mate atu e kore e te reira. Tenei āhua o ngā take maha whakaaro rerekē.

I roto i te rapu o te rongo

Ētahi atu māharahara e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te ora, ki te ora koe i reira he kahore ope, iwi taitamariki ki tau, me te hiahia ki te mahi i te heke whakamomori, me take whiwhi tahi atu āhuatanga. Taumaha, me te paruparu e i roto i taiohi i roto i te tekau tau o mua, kua nui haere te maha o whakamomori takitoru e.

Kei te tangi Sociologists me ngā kaimātai hinengaro te whakaoho, me ahu ki te kupu i te Internet, whakapono e whakamomori mo etahi taitamariki māngai o te tangata - he take ki te whakapuaki ia ratou, ka whiwhi ratou "momeniti o te kororia" i roto i te iwi rite-whakaaro.

I roto i te whenua maha, i reira e tukutuku i oti rawa ki te whakamomori, engari, ahakoa te meka e kua whakaaro etahi Amerika reira e tika ana ki te rāhuitia ratou (Japan), kei te tipu haere tonu ratou me te whakanuia rite harore i muri i te ua.

whai ki te matau i haere mai ki runga ki te whakaaro o te whakamomori tika tohu te oraraa o te raruraru (s) koe. Ki te riro pokepoke te whakaaro, hoki ano a ano, kia tino whakaaro koe e pā ana ki ngā huarahi ki te whiwhi te tauturu.

Ko te mua Soviet Union kore rawa paingia o psychiatrists, engari he mele tenei mahi. He uaua ki te mea te tini o te iwi e kua ora, tahuri ai ki te tohunga i roto i te wa. Ki te kore te mea ahei ki te matau i te mana'o turai i te tangata, kawe ai ia ia ki te fifili te wahi ki te kitea te kaha ki te ora, me waiho e ia tino ki te haere ki te kaihaumanu ranei kitea ara tetahi ki te matapaki i to ratou mau fifi.

tauwehe pāmamae

Ka rite ki te tikanga, kei te toro i te whakaaro o te horihori o tona ake oraraa te hunga e kua tukua whakapania - whētuki nā ano: ko te mate o te aroha tetahi, mana pāpori, he nui o te moni te mahi ranei. I roto i te mōrea ngā he iwi kahore nei o te utuafare: kia rite ki tatauranga, he uaua ake ki te whakahoki, i reira ki te tiki i te kaha ki te haere i runga i ora i muri i te mamae parekura.

Ki te mahi te take mō whakaaro suicidal hei takahanga, me mohio koutou i te mea rawa ngāwari, me te taea ki te urutau te konä tangata. Ko te wa uaua tino - te marama tuatahi e ono i muri i te wharanga. I muri i taua he tangata, ko te nui ake iti iho ranei e taea ki te hoki ki te ora noa.

aronga toi whenuatanga

Ka taea e wheako Western mahi i te mahi pai. Tenei ahua o te therapy rite te rōpū tautoko i hanga o te iwi ki te raruraru rite, he tino whai hua.

Tuatahi, e kore e te tangata e hira ki te mohio, e reira e te iwi e kua ite te mate rite, engari tonu tonu ki te ora i runga i.

Tuarua, noho waho te raruraru anake. Ko reira taa'eraa% 24 anake o te whakamomori e kōrero ki te iwi maha, 60% - ki te torutoru, a 16% i anake tino. korero tenei fika ko i manakohia o te meka e te tūranga matua i roto i te faaotiraa nahea ia ora, ki te kahore ope, nui te kaha ki te whakawhanake i ngā hoapā pāpori.

Ko te ōrite o te taea te mahi pera he hui kaupapa motuhake i runga i te Internet, engari i reira kia kia tupato: maha whakahihi nui pakari atu i roto i te ora tūturu i te iwi whatunga.

arata'i wāhi Mariko ki irresponsibility, no te mea kahore he hiahia ki te kite i te pouri o te tētahi (e he kino tata tetahi), me i reira he kahore tūponotanga ka o whiu. kōrero Whaiaro tonu meinga.

tautoko pai - te pera-ka karanga hotline, e taea waea pau. Ka taea e hirinai ke āwhina ki te ārai raruraru.

Rapu wāhi

Tokomaha o te hunga e tukua te raruraru kino, ki te kitea he putanga i roto i te haapa'oraa solves te raruraru o te hahi me te tohunga. I roto i te parau tumu, ki te āwhina i te tangata, e kore tonu e tika ana ki te whai i te tītohu - ētahi wā rawa mau aroha. I roto i te take o te tohunga āwhina hoki te tau-tawhito whakaaro nui katoa o te Ekalesia, a te whakapono hohonu i roto i te Ariki.

I roto i te rapu o whakautu ki te pātai o te pehea, ki te kitea te kaha ki te ora, i tetahi tikanga, e mau ana te rongo. E whiwhi hua pai mahi tino. Ki te kahore he hiahia ki te ngana ki te kitea ia.

whakahaere tūao maha whakarato ha faingamālie ki mawhiti i to ratou mau fifi na roto i te whakawhiti ki ētahi atu iwi. tauturu e taha te iteraa e "tetahi atu kino", te tahi atu taea kitea te tikanga o te ora ki te aroha.

Pea, kahore he tohutaka kotahi. Ahakoa kaipaipa i whiua e peu, arahina e ngā tikanga. He ko te hunga e tamarû te mōkihi o hikareti e takoto ana i roto i te putea: "Ki te kahore he kua tino fuu, hope," e mohio ana etahi e pai ratou hiahia noho atu i te whakamahi tupeka, me te tahi atu rautaki. Waihoki, me kitea tona kaihoko te iwi e kua tukua he mate nui, me te kore mohio ki te pehea, ki te ora i ki reira.

Whakatika ki te huringa

Ki te kahore i hui kanapa ngaukino, a ka haere tonu whakaaro suicidal, e hiahia ana koe ki te noho ki raro, tangohia te pepa wātea o te pepa, a rite pono whakarārangi i te take he aha ahau e hiahia ana ki te whakamutu. He pai i taha katoa tenei tikanga:

• ope whakarite io ratou whakaaro ake, me te mau mana'o;

• E horo'a te reira kitenga o te raruraru;

• Na te reira e te tirohanga hohonu ki tona ngako.

I muri i te take, e faahepo ki whakaaro, i reira ki te tiki i te kaha ki te ora, kua kitea, he mea e tika ana ki te ngā i te ara ki te aro i te reira. I roto i tenei whakaaro, ka waiho noa te taahiraa anihi he angitu. Ko e mo'oni, ite pai ki te awhina, me te kaihaumanu hoa. A, no te te taea o te kaikä ki te mātanga i reira, kia tamata koe ki te kawe mai ki te raruraru o te kotahi i aroha ranei te Internet taua.

He papa matotoru hoki hinengaro motuhake te wahi ka taea e koe te matapaki i te raruraru, me te whakarongo ki te mea e mea etahi e pā ana ki reira. Whakawa i etahi o nga arotake, ko te tino tika ki te tīariari i tēnei tikanga. Ko te mea matua - ki te kia rite ki te huri i me ki te whakarongo ki te tohutohu.

Tūpato: tamariki

He kāwai motuhake o te iwi e miharo ki te kitea te kaha ki te ora, he taiohi. Ko reira meapango e ui ratou ehara i te mea i te mau metua. A ara atu meapango, ki te kore e kitea te whakatupuranga pakeke matau.

Ngā pakeke, i roto i te wahi, e taea te mohio ki: e tino taea ki te meinga me te kata, me te ritenga hihiritanga Shakespearean i te mahi o ngā kōtiro-tau 13-tau. O te akoranga, ko toku whaea pai mōhio e te aroha tuatahi - e kore e mutu o te ao, "te whakama i runga i te kura katoa," - e kore te tauhae mo te ora, me ētahi atu Ko he mea nui ki te mahino e mau whakaaro taiohi e te reira ki runga, a kia pai kia reira .. hanga i tētahi whakatau e e faahepo i te reira ki te kati me te whai i te mana'o tamau o te hara Aue.

I roto i te mutunga, te tātaritanga o te nui nui o ngā raraunga i kohia suicidology kōrero e maha te take o whakamomori riro te tau'a a tawhio noa.

Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te mahi i te mahi tina heke

He maha kōrero e pā ana ki te take o te whakamomori i roto i tauira tata whakaaro e "ratou tamata noa na ki te kukume tokanga." A pono, i 85 ki te 90% o ngā nganatanga whakamomori e tutuki, me i roto i te morehu e wha nga wa atu wahine atu tangata. Ko e te meka e te tangata kua i roto i te ara rite ki te kukume whakarongo, e kore e tika aroha?

kia atawhai ki tetahi ki tetahi iwi, rawa mai reira te tikanga e kore e utu nui. Korero kupu pukuaroha, me te whakarere waihā - he aha i taea e māmā? Mahalo, Na, te ānau o whakamomori pono ngokingoki iho.

Homai ake a hoatu i roto i i tetahi wa. He nui atu uaua ki te haere tonu ki te rapu hoki i te tikanga o te oraraa. No tetahi tangata e mohio ko te aha e faahepo i te tangata ki te ora i runga i a ka tupu te reira - kia tamata koe ki te pupuri i tumanako ora. Boris Strugatsky, hoatu he uiuitanga kotahi mea ki ana pā: "E kore e tukua atu e koe mahi tina heke." Na ko te tino pai tohutohu mo te katoa o tatou tenei.