Me pēhea te ki te tohu i te taata ahau e rite - tohutohu nga kotiro e founga ki te hanga i te tere tuatahi.

E rave rahi o te feia apî tamahine o teie mahana e maha i faaara e te hi'oraa o Tatyany Larinoy, i roto i te take o te aroha mo te tangata taitamariki e kore ratou tamata ki te tatari noa kite ratou, ka tango take ki o ratou ringa ake. Heoi, tokomaha maha fifili "pehea ki te tohu i te taata e rite koe ia," E kore te mohio ki te wahi ki te tīmata. whakahere matou a koutou he mahere taratara o te mahi i roto i tenei āhuatanga:

Me pēhea te ki te whakaatu i te taata ahau e rite ki a ia. Mahi hūhunu.

Tō mahi i tenei wā - ki te kitea i roto i te pehea koe tino te whiriwhiri. I te iti rawa e whai koe i te tirohanga mārama o mooni. Ki te kore koe e tiaki e pā ana ki reira, na e taea humarie koutou tonu ki te puta, ki te kore - e kore e mea faufaa te reira, e taea tonu mea te huri.

Me pēhea te ki te kitea i roto i tona hononga tūturu ki a koutou:

• Whakahaere he rangahau o hoa, he reira pai ki te kati hoa;
• Whakamātauria kōrero ki a ia ki te pupuri i a ia kanohi whakapā - ki te kore ia i titiro atu, ka whai koe i te tupono;
• Ki te ngana te taata ki te pai koe me te titiro mo te kupu whakahoki ki a roa ki a koutou e noho, he reira ano hoki he tohu tino pai o tona tau'a.

Ka rite ki faahohonu te taata, ahau rite ia? Kōwhiringa mō te wahine kaha.

Ki te kei maia nui koe, korero koe ia e pā ana ki o koutou mana'o tika. tangohia Just te momeniti tika, ina ko ia i roto i nga wairua pai, me te kahore kaititiro ke. I roto i tenei take, kia titiro koe māia. Ki te kore koe e maia ki te korero tika ia, ka taea e koe fakaafe'i ia ki te haere tahi koe ki hea kia e te matau ai e ka waiho atu te rā, e kore te hui noa. Ki te kahore ia, te hui i muri e kore koutou e taea e faahepo i, ki te whakaae te reira - ka pai.

Ka rite ki faahohonu te taata, ahau rite ia, ki te kahore koe e maia ki te korero tika ia?

Ki te kore kua taunga ki te mahi tonu koutou, a pai ara parori, ka tuhituhi ia he tuhipoka whaiāipo ki te āhukahuka o te "ahau rite koe." Noatia, ki te te pau ai ki te rā o Valentine, ranei ka tukua atu i roto i te huru novelistic. e kore koe e whai ki te ohauru, a mea atu ki a ia i te reira, hanga titiro reira rite te mea i ui koe ki te takawaenga. Ki te kite koe i, e taua i hiahia i roto i te tuhipoka ia, ka taea e koe kia mohio ki a ia e te kaituhi - koe.

Ētahi atu tohutohu ki te āwhina ki te whakautu i te pātai "pehea ki te tohu i te taata, e ahau rite ia":

• E noho koe, e kore e tamata ki te pai i te taata, te mau i te kanohi o te atu o te tangata. Ki te koe tino rite ia, anake hoki te mea i a koutou, me te teka, e maoro, i muri ka haere ake i roto i. Ahakoa, ki te hoki te whakaaro ki o te mau mana'o e hiahia ana koe ki te kawe ki tou ora huringa pai (mahi mahi, te whakamutu paowa, tīmata ki te ako pai ranei), ka waiho i te reira tika pai;
• Ki te kahore i whakautu i te taata ki a koutou i roto i hoki, ngana ki te tahuri te whakahaere ki te kata. Kaua e tangi, e kore e pēhi i runga taua mea, a kahore he pouri rawa. Ko taea e te koutou rangatira tatari hoki ki a koutou haere mai, a ki tenei tangata tino e taea te hanga e koe hoa;
• Feruri i te mea i taea e tona tauhohenga me te whakatau i roto i mua te mea kei a koutou e pā ana ki ki te whakahoki, ka pehea nehenehe e taea e koe whakamuri i te take o te kore;
• Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakaae i te taata i roto i te aroha ki ngā karere SMS i roto i whatunga pāpori mēra ranei - i roto i tenei take e hiahia ana ki te kia maia;
• e kore Whakamātauria ki ohovale ki ētahi atu eé ina e koe ki a ia;
• Ki te whai koe i hoa noa, me ngā ngākau nuitanga, ko reira utu reira i roto i nga ara ki te whakaatu ki a ia.

Ka rite ki faahohonu te taata, ahau rite ia. Koutou hapa:

• Kaua e whakatoi i roto i te whakahaere tahi me ia;
• Kaua e whakaatu aroha wera nui tohu;
• Ki te kore e whakapai ana o koutou whiriwhiri hoa, e hiahia ana kia koe ki te whakarongo ki to ratou whakaaro;
• Ehara i te mea e tika ana mo ki te hononga rurunga ani i te tauturu i roto i te meka pūmotu. He pai ki te ui ki a ia ki te āwhina i matau koutou te tahi mea, te wahi koutou ignoramus oti, me te ia, i runga i te anga ke, he mātanga;
• Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakamahi i hoa rite kaitakawaenga;

I roto i tetahi take, whakarongo ki to koutou pūmanawa vahine i roto, e te parau tonu koutou te mea he tika, me te pai hoki koutou.