Me pēhea te ki te wareware te tetahi aroha

Ki te reira ko te tūtukitanga, i reira te mea he hiahia ki te whakatau me pehea ki te wareware te tetahi i aroha i roto i to ratou oraraa whaiaro. Ehara i te mea ohie, na e hiahia ana koe ki te tamata huarahi rerekē, i runga i te aha atamira i te hononga rānei. Ko tētahi atu tino nui ki te mārama me pēhea te hohonu te mana'o, a ko reira kaha atu i, ka whai i te atu mana'o puai ki te hanga.

E kore e amuamu ki ētahi atu ki te tiki taitaia, ahakoa te kaha ranei te mamae aronganui kia meinga pai taua hūhi. Me koe ki te whakamahi i te wheako o te iwi e noho ana i roto i te wehenga kotahi, me te pai faaruru i te mahi.

Tuatahi, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakatau mēnā ko reira te aroha e ai mauiui. maha karanga People aroha i te tahi atu āhua katoa - te aroha, hiahia ki te aroha, te auhoaraa kaha, te peu o te tahi ki etahi tangata, a tae noa - snobbery, te kiritau-me te faatura-whaiaro, whakapehapeha me te tikanga o te mana. Ka taea te tonu tenei rārangi rite he reira whānui. A, ki te tetahi o nga āhua o te rārangi mo koutou ki te kia pono, ko te pātai, ko te pehea, ki te wareware he kore he tetahi aroha hāngai.

He tumu rawa kaha mō te mauiui e taea e te pātai o te aha te iwi e mea. kia tenei pātai kia whakahoki iwi whakaaro nui: "E kore te mea te hoa tauwhainga rotok tauera nakinesh" ranei rite i runga i te kaupapa kotahi. Ratau, tenei āhuatanga - ko reira he kupu whakahoki watea ki te taa kotahi a ake ake te tūranga: e kore mea ki ta mea iwi, he ratou i roto i tetahi take kahore pai, kia rite ki te tikanga, e kore e korero. A utu kore he utu reira whakarongo ki te kawekawe korero o te iwi, no te mea te reira anake tāpiri wahie ki te ahi.

Ki te ko te mana'o tonu te aroha pono, e hiahia ana koe ki te korero koe i taua aroha e kore kua iho i a kore e waiho te take o te mamae. Ko ahau whakakake, me te hari i kitea te kaha, te mea homai noa a te Atua - te aroha, hoki e pā ana ki iwa i roto o nga iwi kotahi tekau e kore e mohio te aroha. Na te tangata nei i hoatu te oaoa o te aroha, he momonatanga ahurei o te ao wairua, he susceptibility tiketike, me te te viivii o te ngakau. He tika hoki enei huru maitatai katoa e mea ratou,, whakawhetai te Atua - koa e tutaki iwi, meinga te ngakau ki te taratimere o te hari, me te oaoa. Na ka te raruraru o te pehea, ki te wareware te kotahi aroha e haere ki tetahi atu taumata.

I roto i tenei wā e hiahia ana koe i te mōrahi uta koe hinengaro, me i roto i taua mau taime, no te taea tonu te haamana'oraa, me tamata tatou ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki anake te pai, a ka kia whakawhetai mo te hui. Ki te te anö-aroha whaiaro - he tohu pono e kia whai te mana'o te kore. nei hoki ia aroha ki ahau e kore e hiahia te oaoa, hanga ki runga ki te aitua o etahi, e kore e rapu hoki, me pehea ki te wareware te tangata ia aroha, a koa e te vai ia, e kua ia tūmanako e he hari ia, a ka hiahia ki a ia i te pai katoa.

Ki te i tatou ki te iriti i te mana'o i roto i te mana rerekē, ka hiahia koe ki te tīmata i te wāhi rerekē. He mea tika ki te haamana'o (record pai) te kōrero katoa i te timatanga, me te rārangi, ko te āhuatanga kino anake. I muri pānui reira e rave rahi taime, he mea e tika ana ki te faaoti e ki tenei kōrero ta'efiefia koutou tika i whiti, me te pātai - me pehea ki te wareware koutou taata tino noa e kore e tīari.

Ki te whiua tonu whakaaro kino, e ti'a ia tatou ia maramarama e, ko te reira rawakore kiritau-, Me ki horo'ai to ratou pūngao katoa ki te hanga i te mahi i roto i te mahi tūmatanui ranei whiwhi i te rauaruhe e titau mahi ite nui, hei tauira, ki te tīmata te ako i te reo ke, he mahi taumauri nui ranei.

Tētahi atu awhina i roto i te raruraru angitu whakaoti - me pehea ki te wareware i te kotahi aroha, e taea e te mahinga o ia rā, i e kore e taea te whakakake, mahi, ia rā ahuareka iti - pērā i te hoko te tahi mea kua roa e hiahia ki te hoko, engari tonu e taea e kore te mahi, te tiaki whakarei hoki katoa kaore he aweretanga, aroha hunga, whakarerea i te wa o te pūrākau, a na i runga i.

Aha e kore ki te mahi i rite, ko te ki te ngana ki te whakamahi i te ratonga o te tohunga maori katoa me kaititiro whetu e ko te reira i runga i enei take imi i te moni rawa pai.