Me pēhea te ki te whakahoki i te hononga ki te kotiro?

mea ratou: "kanga KareKano - tika whakangahau." Otiia e kore e he pono tenei. I roto i te ora, ko reira maha te tahi atu ara. Ko, kaua, e taea e te katoa te āhuatanga, ina te kupu tou kaumeá, "Kia waiho te hoa" ranei "i ahau tetahi atu."

O te akoranga, kei riri koe, e tika pissed koe atu, engari te mutunga ite koe e ora i waho ia ka hina, me te puhoi. Na ka fifili koe te taua pātai: "Me pēhea te ki te whakahoki i te hononga ki te kotiro?".

Ko te mea matua i roto i tenei āhuatanga - ki te noho marino, me te tikanga noa. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakahokia mai ratou hononga ki te kotiro, e kore te mea e tika ana ki te whakawehi ia. Kahore he take ki te mea e ki te kore e hoki mai ia, peke koe i roto o te matapihi. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te karanga, tuhituhi, amuamu o tona ora pakeke, me te tawai ia i roto i te oreraa me te pipiri. Well, ki te whakatau koe ki te whakahou ai i te hononga ki te kotiro i te kaha - wareware e pā ana ki reira kotahi me mo te katoa!

A faaite i roto i te ngakau e ka whai etahi wa ki te tatari tika. Kia koutou kare ata iho. I roto i tenei wa, ka taea e koe te tātari i te āhuatanga puta, ka matau rite te mea arahina ki te meka e te hononga ki te kotiro ngaro.

Ka taea e te āputa e maha ngā take:

1. ngā.

i muri tonu te whakatutuki i te iwi taitamariki e taea te kōrero mō te haora, fakamoleki tahi ratou wa free katoa. e hiahia ana ratou ki te mohio katoa e pā ana ki ia atu: he aha e rerekē ratou, a he aha te mea rite. He harikoa noa ratou.

Otiia ki te i runga i te wā i roto i to outou oraraa tupu tetahi mea hou ki te kore koe e whai ngākau nuitanga noa, ki te kahore koutou e maere ia atu, me te e kore e hiahia ana ki te whakawhanake i te hononga ma'ihia, i reira nga tautohetohe kei me putihitia atu.

2. mangere.

I runga i te hiahia ki te haumi tonu ratou wa katoa, me te kaha. Ki te mutu koe ki te riaka - wahi ki te pei i te tai, te mahi ona mea homai, ohorere, me te hoatu kare hou - ka tīmata te reira ki te titiro hoki ki runga ki te taha.

3. ōritenga.

He mea nui kia whai koe ngā pānga noa, moe, outlook i runga i te ora me te uara. E koe ki te kia rite i roto i to ratou outlook, huru ki te moni, me whai āhua i te mana pāpori taua, me te mātauranga. Ki te he te reira - he kotiro pa ki te mātauranga teitei i te utuafare rawa, a koutou - te taata i te kainga, e parau tuite no te haapiiraa tuarua, a mahi rite te welder, e kore e koutou i runga i te ara. I te timatanga o te hononga, ina e koe i roto i te aroha, e taea te kite i kahore rerekētanga nui, engari te mutunga ka waiho he rerekētanga nui i waenganui ia koutou. Tikanga, timata tika ki te kore o te whiriwhiri me te hiahia ki te kia anake enei hononga.

4. Te kore o te matauranga.

I ki te hiahia hoatu tona wairua, ki te taea ki te kitea tukunga, tamata i te take taea iti me kore e he, engari tangohia tiaki o koutou mate wairua.

Ehara i te ite o ratou hape, e kore e taea e koe te hanga i tētahi hononga hou, hoki ki te tawhito ranei.

Ki te hiahia koe ki te hoki ki tona kaumeá - e kore e hohoro. Mea atu ia e, ahakoa pekanga, ka taea e ia te tatau tonu i runga i a koe ka rite ki te hoa. Hiahia kotiro angitu me tona tiaki katoa, whakahere tetahi awhina. Me ia ki te mohio e koutou - te tangata ki nei koutou e taea e whakawhirinaki i runga i, kahore he mea te mea e tupu, mau tonu koutou i roto i te ringa āwhina.

Ki te ohorere ia, meatia ana kupu reka. I muri i te katoa, i nga kotiro katoa rite reira. aroha ratou hitimahuta. Maere ia i tetahi wa i runga i te ra o te whanautanga, ra o te aroha, te ra o te kihi tuatahi. Ki te mahi i tenei, tika tahuri i runga i te whakaaro, me te kia i te moka whaiāipo. e kore e taea te whakaaro o tetahi ki te hoatu i te kotiro he hononga marama, e ono marama, i te tau ranei te rā whānau? Just rave i te tahi e kore mahi i mua. Ka taea e koe te waiata i tētahi Serenade i raro i te matapihi he kotiro ranei ki te ui ia ki kanikani i roto i nga wahi mōwai, tae atu pūtau kaitākaro ranei. Kia riro te reira ki te kōrero ki a koutou, pera kare, e kore e nei i riro ki te tangata.

Kia mahara: I roto i te tikanga ki te whakahoki i te hononga ngaro ki te kotiro, whai koe ki te kia hiahia i roto i a ia. Whakawhanake i roto i ngā tohutohu maha, Kia tetahi hākinakina, kitea ratou arearea. A ani ia ki te tango i tetahi wahi i roto i to outou oraraa.

Kia kite ia pēhea te ngā, me te hauhautanga kaha hei koe. Ngā manaakitanga!