Whanaungatanga Ira i roto i te Modern Society

Ki te tangohia e tatou rite te pūtake mo te whakamārama o te ariā o "ira" i roto i te papakupu, te tikanga nei ko rite "sex pāpori", ka taea te kite i te wā rawa "whanaunga ira" rite whanaunga pāpori o te hapori, no ki rerekē tane koiora. Te nuinga i roto i te taunekeneke pāpori he pükenga hinengaro, ngā āhuatanga whanonga o te takitahi.

Ko, i roto i ngā tangata ohie, e nehenehe tatou e te mea e whanaunga ira - he hononga kore-takoto i waenganui i te tane me te wahine i roto i te tikanga whānui o te kupu.

I roto i nga ngahau hou, me nga wahi arearea i roto i ngā Monologues korokē, rangona puta noa i te mata atamira me te pouaka whakaata, kei te kōrero te pātai "arorau wahine" me "arorau o te tangata." E whakahe ariā enei e rua, rite i whawhai ai ki tetahi ki tetahi. Ahakoa kahore he konei te ariā o "arorau" i roto o te wahi. Ko te kupu whakahi tauira whanonga ira.

e kore e whanaunga Ira makatuunga e sex koiora me te mana pāpori o te tangata, tona mātauranga, tona āhuatanga pūtea, tona wahi o te noho. Hei tauira, miharo kahore tetahi e te meka e puta te kaipakihi paari wahine taitamariki he rangatira ranei, e kore e taua mahi, e kore e ako, e kore e mahi i tetahi mea a tawhio noa te whare, engari tonu whiwhi whakapaipai utu me wharekai toro. Ko te tata tenei tohatoha o tūranga i roto i tēnei kāwai o to tatou hapori te täkupu. Heoi, he mea kuware ki te amo i taua i roto i mau utuafare tuawhenua o te wahine ka waiho i runga i te hepetoma haere a tawhio noa i roto i te kakahu utu posh, moe poutumaro noa me te utu horoi whare pononga. Here fakakaukau rawa rerekē o ngā tūranga ira tangata i roto i te ora.

I roto i te ao tahito te tākaro i te tohatoha o ngā tūranga ira tangata i roto i te hapori i te wāhi nui, no te mea i āwhina reira iwi ki te ora. Tangata tika tūranga ariki, a kia whai i te wahine ki te awhenga tona e pai puta noa i ona hiahia. Ia - ko he kaikorero, tautoko me te kaiwhakaruruhau, ia - paruru, ti'aturi, me te pononga talangofua. I roto i te rerekē ki te ariā o "sex", te hou kupu "ira" Ko tino rite ana te wahine ki te tangata i roto i te ao katoa o te ora, tuku tango ki a koutou ki te ira tangata pūkete, me te ako ona āhuatanga hinengaro, engari e kore e tukua ki te whakaititia te māharahara o "ngoikore" o te takoto wahine.

Ahakoa te meka e wahine i mua patua te matua e tika ana ki te papa tūranga whanonga ā-me waho, ka timata ki te tikanga ake noa i roto i te hapori, te whakawhitiwhiti i te ohipa whare e kore e anake, engari ite hoki ratou ngaio rite angitu kitea ko te vilitakí kitea o fakato'u'osi o te kaha (tupato me angitu) natula huru tane, me te ngoikore (mele) wahine, kitea i roto i te reo. Kia whai whakaaro, no te mea te kupu "ngaio" ranei, mo te tauira, "Librarian" - tautāne, engari he ngana ki te karanga i te wahine "ngaio" ( "pukapuka") oro rite te ara ki tona "masculinize", hoatu ana e ia he āhuatanga tautāne. I te wa ano, ki te tahuri koe ki te kupu grammatically ka tāpiri ki te pīmuri pakiaka, me te wahine mutunga "professionalka", ranei "pukapuka" - tangi kino kupu. Kua roa tenei āhuatanga i whawhai i roto i te Te Hau-ā-uru, hanga i te huringa tika i roto i te wetereo. Hei tauira, i roto i te reo Tiamana nga kupu katoa e pā ana ki te ingoa o te tikanga me te whai i te ahua o huru tane, me te wahine, kahore kore.

Ko te tangata e tukua he hapa wetereo , me te pau ki ahua wahine o te kupu ki te mutunga o te ira tangata tautāne, mōrearea taka i raro i te māharahara rite te sexist, misogynist. Harakore (i roto i te kanohi o te tangata toharite o Russia) paheke i te whanonga o te Pākehā kia whai nunu'a mamafa. tono unobtrusive ki te rapu i te tauturu i te psychoanalyst ko te softest e wātea ana i roto i te täoro o te whawhai taua whanonga anti-pāpori. Ko te hua o te pakanga mō te taurite ira i roto i Europe me te tikanga mo te ārai o te tutu ki te wahine tenei.
I te wa ano ko reira kitea ki tetahi kuware Pākehā o te nuinga o tatou tangata i roto i te mea o te hinengaro me te ōritetanga ira. Te waiho i te ture i runga i taurite i waenganui i nga tangata me nga wahine, kei te maha whakaaro "te upoko o te whānau" i roto i Russia whanonga noa ki te tawai, whakaititia ratou "atu hawhe." E mea pinepine i roto i taua mau utuafare i reira he tūkino tinana, me te ara whaiaro Rauakitua-. e kore te mea ri'ari'a ara te meka e tenei suschestvet āhuatanga, engari e hapori akono ia ki etahi ta'etokanga.

Heoi, Kei te pai-ka u ai fakato'u'osi ira hanga tatou tangata ki te tau'a ore i te meka e tutu i roto i te whānau e maha i raro ki nga tangata e ratou wahine. Mai i whanau, e whakaakona mau tamaroa e kore e kino ia kōtiro - no te mea he ngoikore ratou. whanaunga ira pērā i roto i te utuafare arata'i ki te meka e tipu ake me te whiwhi "i raro i te rekereke" hoa o te ora, he te tahi mau taime te tahi mau tangata nuitia pakia me kohukohu, e kore te taea (runga ake te katoa - hinengaro) ki te tiaki ia ratou.

I roto i Amerika, i reira e tino ritenga raruraru i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ira. mohiotia hurinoa hoki titauraa patanga taurite tonu. A kia te take o te tono ki te marae e haere te tangata he wahine i mua i roto i te waka whakatuwhera te tatau mo ia ranei.

Ko te kupu, ko te ariā o "whanaunga ira tangata" e pā ana ki te ao pāpori, te pāhekoheko o tane koiora, engari ona raruraru puta i roto i ngā akoranga o te hinengaro ira.