Amuamu te tamaiti o te parau-tia ore i to koutou taha? Ako e founga ki te whakautu tika

Ahakoa, ki te whakamahi koe i te rangatira ki te ine i te rahi o nga mongamonga keke, he koe mohio ki te whakarongo ki te kupu: "Ehara i te ataahua." Heoi, kia matau koutou, ki te he koe i roto i neke atu i te kotahi te tamaiti, e kore koe e whiwhi ki te mahi i te katoa "faitotonu." ka amuamu tonu tamariki e ka tahi atu taata i te wahi nui. Ano, e whakapono ratou e hiahia koe to ratou teina, tuahine ranei. Na te aha e meatia e koe ki te amuamu tō tamaiti o te whakawa he? Ki te mahi i tenei, e hiahia ana koe ki te whai i te tukanga arā, o rua hikoinga. Tuatahi, aroha ki te inoino, ara, ki te kore koe e whakaae ki te tautohe. Tuarua, te whakatau i te hiahia tūturu, i ngā roto i te whakaaturanga o te aroha. Kimihia atu te mea e waiho te whakautu ki etahi o te paerewa "taurite" āhuatanga, me te piira ki a koutou tamariki.

"Tona wahi ake!"

Ki te whai koe i te tahi mea e ka muri mo te rua tamariki, kia wehea te kaupapa, me te tuarua anake - ki te whiriwhiri i te wahi. Ranei, ki te kahore i whakamahere koe i te reira i roto i mua, kata ki koe, a kore whakakapi atu wahi tino. Mea atu, "Aue, e kore! Tona wahi i atu? e kore ahau e taea e whakapono i te reira! Ki te ko reira he wahi o ara o te iti Me ki kia ake mo taua mea he rau awhiawhi me kihi ahau he wahi rau. "

"Taonga tonu ia toku mea!"

Ko nui atu taumaha atu i maha ngā mātua whakaaro tenei raruraru, kia kore e titiro ki reira i roto i toku maihao. Whai, me te tiaki hoki i te taonga - ko te wheako nui mo te tamaiti, e whakaako ia he haapiiraa nui tenei. Horo'ai te tamarii tata'itahi ratou tepu ake, i nei e waiho e ia taea ki te mahi me te wahi ki te taea ki te tae tetahi tamaiti, a ka hoatu ia o ratou he opani e whaiaro, te wahi e pupuri ai mea motuhake e kore e taea e e pa ki tetahi ki tetahi.

"Koe noho tonu te wa ake ki a ia!"

parau tō tamaiti koutou e hiahia ana ia ki a koe noho wa ake ki a ia, me te hae, te nui o te wā e noho koutou ki tona teina tuahine ranei? Mauruuru i to'na mau mana'o, ka riria ia e ka rite ona hiahia. Mea atu ki a ia: "E hiahia ana koe ki ahau te āwhina koe ki te mīhini i teie nei. Ko tenei ahau te āwhina ahau tou tuahine ki tona kaupapa. Ka rite ki ahau i mea ahau, ka waiho ahau koutou katoa. Kaua e manukanuka, e noho tonu ahau wa nui mo e rua o koutou, a kahore e taea e ahau tatari mo te momeniti ina e taea e ahau te whakapau wā ki a koutou. "

"He aha i rere ia ki te haere ki toku papa ruau, a kahore ahau e ahau?"

ai hei whakahoki te pono e ko te reira iti rawa ki te rere i runga i to ratou ake, engari e kore te mea he tautohe mo te tamaiti tenei. Na reira, e hiahia ana koe ki te ite i te faufaa o ana hiahia, ka ki whakamōhio ia e ka e taea ki te rere, ka reira ka waiho he iti pakeke ia.

"Aroha koe ki a ia, nui atu i ahau!"

Tō whāinga ina whakautu koe ki te tauākī taua kia waiho te whakaaturanga o te nui te aroha koutou ki a ia, a kihai te meka e aroha koe ki a ia, nui atu i tona teina, tuahine ranei. Ki te homai e koe ki te matau ai ko ia to koutou tino ngaro, ka ite ia hara, a ka whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea e mea koutou ki tona teina tuahine ranei.

kia matau koe e kore e taea ki te whakamatau koutou tamariki e aroha ana koe ki a ratou rite koe. kia Just mohio ratou e rongo e koe a ratou me e kore e taea e koe aroha ki taata atu atu ratou. Ko te aha kia mohio tamaiti katoa.