Kia tino ki te korero i te reira ki a koutou tamariki i tenei ra!

akiakina horihori tūao ngā mātua ki te korero ki a ratou tamariki anake i runga i trifles whare. faahiti koe te mea ano, wareware nui. He aha Me tino ki te whakarongo ki te tamaiti atu pinepine? Te tūhura kīanga e mea tohunga nui i roto i te hinengaro tamariki. kia korero koe ki a ratou auau!

"Me pehea e koe?"

Pea te pātai pai e anake ka taea e koe whakaturia i te tamaiti. iriti i ia te tatau ki te whakahaere me te taea te tamaiti ki te matau e whakaatu ki a koe te moni i roto i tona huru taata. haapuai tenei te motuhake o te tamaiti. Na roto i te ui i teie uiraa, e te āwhina koe i tō tamaiti whakatau i runga i tona hiahia ake, me te ki te faaite kare. I roto i te tua, he pātai taua whakaongaonga koe te whakaaro arohaehae. ite ētahi mātua e whai ratou ki te whakaoti i nga raruraru katoa o te tamaiti, engari te pātai i taea e whakakiia ana ope. A, no te ta te tamaiti e hiahia ana ia i te inu, pana i te reira ki te raruraru. Ki te he ia kahore rongoā, ka taea e hoatu e koe tīwhiri. Ko te pai atu i te ū tonu ki te koati tono tenei.

"Kei koe pai!"

Ki te maha korero koe i te tamaiti te mea he pai ia, riro te reira i te mooni. Whakamātauria ki kite i te mahi pai katoa o tou koati, tohu te reira i roto i nui. Ki te korero koe i tou tamaiti he aha te mea pai ia, e tauturu te reira ki a ia hei pakeke fakaeongo hauora e whakatoatoa i runga i. Whakatairanga o aroha homai hua faahiahia i roto i te wā roa.

"Tena" me "whakawhetai koe"

Ki te hiahia ki te hamani koe ki te faatura koutou, tikanga fakatatau. Whakamātauria ki te whakamahi i tonu te kupu "tēnā" me "whakawhetai koe." He mea nui ki te waiho i te tauira tūnga, no te mea ka whakahaere tō tamaiti i roto i te ara ano, a ka mahara tonu te mauruuru.

"Au pouri ahau"

Pea e kore te mea tenei te mea e hiahia ana koe i nga ra, tika mahara: he mea nui ki te whakapāha ki nga tamariki, ki te he hara o te tahi mea koe. Ki te tatarahapa koe, whakaatu koe pehea nui ko reira ki te kia te kawenga mō o ratou mahi. Tatarahapa i muri ia koutou mai i roto o koe, kia he hape ranei, e tauturu te reira ki te hanga i tētahi hononga o te whakawhirinaki.

"Tamata Nice!"

Mea atu ki nga tamariki i ratou tino pai, ki te he pono tenei. e kore e whakamoemiti kau aromatawai i te kaha tūturu. He pai ki te whakamoemiti, ina kite tino koutou e whiwhi i te tamaiti te, na ka whai reira he hihiri hoki atu tautooraa. Hoki, kia matau koutou, e kore e te whakamoemiti mahi mō ētahi o ngā tamariki. Aromatawaitia takitahi a tikanga fakatatau. Ka taea hoki te kōrero ki te tamariki i te wā e haere ana ratou kuri ranei e eke ana haere i roto i te motokā. Ka taea e te kanohi whakapā kia tino whakaongaonga, kia tika haere i muri ki - taea reira te tamaiti ki te whakatuwhera ake.

"Ahau rite reira ka koe ..."

kia tāutu i ngā mātua te hunga mahi e rite ratou. A haapapu pai whanonga, taranata, aroha me te pūāhua whakaatu. Mea atu te aha rite koe, ina te āwhina koe i te tamaiti ranei, ka mahi ana pai ia ki te whanaunga. Whakamātauria ki kite te tahi mea pai katoa ra. E mea ohie noa ki te faahapa te mea e kore koutou e rite. Otiia, Ka taea e hanga noa huringa iti te rerekētanga nui i roto i te āhua o te titiro i te tamaiti i a ia.

"Mauruuru hoki te mea i koe e ahau ko ahau"

He mea nui ki te korero ki te tamariki e te oaoa nei koe mo te mea i ratou ki a koutou. whakaatu mihi te taumata motuhake o te aroha me te tautoko.

"Kia pehea te ko tou ra?"

mea mau metua i te rota, engari i ētahi wā te reira pai ki te tuku i te tamaiti korero. A ani pehea tona ra, a ka whakarongo āta. E kore te mea tenei e pā ana ki a koutou - whakarongo ki te mea kei te whakararuraru i te tamaiti. Ahakoa, ki te whakaaro koe te mea poauau, ranei e kore koutou e whakaae ki tona whakaaro, tirohanga a te nuinga o ngā tamariki. Kaua e whakamahi ki te waea pona ranei.

"E matau ana ahau ki taea e koe i te reira"

Tukua te tamaiti ki te hanga i to ratou ake hape, ko reira te horo'a rahi e taea mahi koe. Ki te whakatau te koati ona ake raruraru iti, faaineine ia ki fifi nui i roto i te ora pakeke. Mea atu koutou tamaiti e he tika ia: no te mea ite ia e he ahei o nui ia. Kia mea he e te otinga ki te raruraru o ngā tamariki - he ara ki te whakaatu aroha, ano no te mea e kore koe e tukua ki a ratou te riro whakawhirinaki.

"Ko te hawhe tonu te karaihe"

I nga ra katoa e taea e koe taui te tahi mea kino ki te pai. Ki te whakaako koe tamariki rerekē titiro ki te kino, ka whakamahi ratou tenei rauhanga puta noa i tona ora. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakaahua e reira he pai anake i roto i te ao, tika tamata i te ite i te mau fifi, me te rapu rongoā.

"Aroha ana ahau ki a koe!"

kia mea kitea tenei, ano rongo reira maha nui etahi tamariki. Me mau metua e kore anake ki te whakaatu i te aroha o ngā mahi, engari ano ki te kōrero tika e pā ana ki reira. Kupu i te kaha nui, ratou e taea te whakaora kino ia ranei, whakatairanga ranei whakangaro. I te tahi taime, noa nui ki te mea e pā ana ki tona aroha ki te whakaki i te oaoa o te tamaiti.

"Aroha ana ahau ki ahau"

He mea nui ki te korero i te tamariki e aroha ana koe ki a ratou, engari ko reira rite nui ki te whakaatu me te whaiaro aroha-. A, no te titiro koutou i roto i te whakaata, tamata ki te kōrero i runga i te mea pai ki a koutou te mea i kite koutou. Kaua e arotahi ki runga i te meka e e waiho reira e tika ana ki te huri i. Whakaaturia tō tamaiti e haafaufaa koe - ko maitai noa tenei.

"Aroha ahau matakitaki ana tākaro koe"

mau metua nui nei papaki tonu mahi me te hamama o te tamaiti e kore e rite whai hua rite te hunga e fakamanatu noa nga tamariki e rite ratou ki te whanga ki a ratou,. Kahore na Whakakorea te kēmu o te hari, ka rite ki te mana matua tūturu. Kaua e tiki whai wāhi, me te kia tahuri ki te ngākau nuitanga o te tamaiti.

"E kore koe e whai ki te hei hoa ki te katoa"

Me fakamanatu koe nga tamariki e kore ratou e whai ki te hei hoa ki te tangata katoa. I te wa ano e hiahia ana matou kia fakamanatu ki e he mea nui ki te kia atawhai. Aromātai me utu - he nui, engari te tangata e kore e matau me pehea ki te kia atawhai ki etahi atu, e kore e manuïa. Haapii i ta outou mau tamarii ki te tiki me ētahi atu, i waho hoatu ake ratou ake ngākau nuitanga.

"E kore koe e hanga te aroha"

te aroha mutunga - ko te ariā matatini, Heoi, e hiahia ana koe ki te ngana ki te kawe i te reira. Mea atu ki te tamaiti e ka aroha tonu koe ia, e kore e hiahia ana ia ki te ngana ki te whiwhi o koutou mau mana'o. He mea nui kia mohio te koati e pā ana ki tenei me te mahara e kipakipa koutou mahi katoa i te aroha.

"He mea OK"

He mea nui ki te whakaako i te tamaiti ki te matau e kore - e te pai. Me tika koe ki te tamata i! Ki te kore te tahi mea i te mahi i roto i, te āwhina i tō tamaiti e kore e ngaro ngakau.

"Kahore he tangata he pai ranei kino atu koutou"

e kore te whakaako tamariki ki te whakarite koe ki ētahi atu. e kore e ratou whakawa iwi i te moni, te ira tangata, te tae kiri, ranei te matua. He nui te ora tangata i roto i tetahi take, me te mohio ki te reira.

"Kei te mahi koe aha?"

Kia mataara koutou tamaiti, me te ui pātai ārahi, taea reira ki a ia mahino e he hiahia i roto i a koutou. Kaua e whakaititia, tamariki ki te pānui i ranei te mahi pāngarau, kia whakaatu ratou ratou ake moni, me te he hiahia anake i roto i te ahunga whakamua i hanga.

"Kei te hari koutou ki taua?"

e kore e rapu ki te whakamoemiti kau. Ki te ui tetahi tamaiti koutou ranei rite koe tona tuhi, ui ki he makona ki reira ia ia. Mea atu etahi mea, hei tauira, rite koe e taea te kite i te mau tautooraa e aore te nui rite koe ki te whakamahi i te tae.

whakawhirinaki i te tukanga

Na, inaianei e mohio ana koe e founga ki te kōrero ki te tamaiti. Heoi, tika tamata ki whakawhirinaki koe. Kaua e titau te tamaiti ki te tikanga rite te pakeke, engari mahara: whakawhanake reira i nga ra katoa. Kaua e whakaaro e te hua o koutou kupu e kia tonu. Āta hanga whakawhirinaki me te whakaute. A e kore e tailiili rawa. Child Kōhungahunga - he momeniti ahurei mo ona matua, a ko te kupu haafaufaa tenei wa, me te pārekareka ki reira.