Me pēhea te ki te hoki mai te e arohaina ana

Te tangata e matau e hanga he hononga e kore e he ngāwari. He ngāwari ki te wahi i ratou, a ka hoki mai i te tetahi aroha he ētahi wā e taea. Whanaunga - he here, hoki e hiahia ana koe ki te pupuri i tonu i te kanohi i runga i, kia mau ratou, tangohia tiaki me te titiro i muri ia ratou i enei. e te mea hiahia i roto i te hononga tangata, he kawenga hoki te hanga i te tikanga pai mo te hoa, i te kore whakatikatika takahi i runga i to ratou ake tikanga ranei. He te hononga ki te waiho i te toenga, engari i ētahi wā ohorere te pauna te, a ka e tupu, arata'i katoa ki raruraru me te pōhēhē. I roto i te mutunga, whatiia ake hononga wobbly, engari tupu te reira e tetahi o nga taha e tumanako tonu hoki te pai. Ka taea e tenei taha e rānei te wahine ranei te tangata, engari i roto i tenei tuhinga ka e kōrero ko e pā ana ki ngā kōtiro. Aha ki te mahi, no te maka e koe toku aroha, me pehea ki te tiki i te reira.

I roto i tenei āhuatanga, e kore e te āwhina tonu etahi ture, engari i reira e tonu etahi taime, me whakawhetai ki a ratou, ka taea e koe te hoki i te aroha. Ko te mahi matua āta, maranga wawe ana me ngā wā katoa. O te akoranga, ki te whawhai hoki i te hononga ko uaua, engari ara i roto i ngā āhuatanga Aue taea whakamatautau ia ia tika.

Tuatahi o te katoa kia kōrero a pā ana ki te mau hape e wahine i muri tonu i ratou whakarere. Ki te whakatau koe e hiahia ana koe i tenei tangata, ko reira koutou ora, a ka aroha koutou ia ngana, ka i roto i tetahi take e kore e hiahia ana ki te ringihia ohorere runga ia ratou fakaaoao katoa, ngana ki te pehi ia koe, kia rite ki te mea kahore i koe uaua. Ahakoa, ki te kua hamama: kua koutou ki a ia, ka huaina katoa o kupu, kōrero ki a ia, ka tatarahapa, marino, oro whārite. Kahore he take ki te whakaaro tonu e pā ana ki te aroha me te wheako, e hamama ana ki te urunga - noho koe ki te tahi mea, e kore e tono mea te tangata ki te haere hoki - titiro reira pathetic me e koutou i roto i te tūranga rorirori, e kore e hoatu te pēhanga ki runga ki te tohu - te reira poauau kore ki te ui e pā ana ki te hunga ki kua riro ia. katahi anake ka taea e ki te whakahoki mai i te tetahi aroha kia koutou.

Katoa e noho tonu i roto i tenei āhuatanga, pera kia haere i te reira, a tika aroha ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki nga mea katoa, me te tatari mo etahi wa. Ko te wa e hiahiatia ana ki te pae hopea noho ki raro, ki te ora, kahore a ia, a te mutunga whakatau mehemea ki te haere ki te mutunga, ka hoki mai tona aroha. Ko runga ake katoa, te wa e tika ana mo koutou ki te ake.

kia mohio ki ano te reira i kore e nga whanaunga o mua hoki rite ka i mua e haere. Hei tīmata i tētahi hononga hou ki a ia ranei ki tetahi atu, e hiahia ana koe ki te titiro ki tatou, a ko reira taea ki te timata ki te huri i te tahi mea. ka waiho mea nui ki te whakamatau koe e he kaha koutou, a noa'tu te pakeke ko reira, a ka ite i koe te tiaki aroha. Kua ake No tetahi kī e wahi he ngāwari, tamata noa ki te pupuri i aku mana'o mo te raka te utuafare katia.

A he aha te mea i roto i te tiaki o te tetahi aroha ki kupu koe, me pehea ki te mahi i muri i te tinihanga, me pehea ki te hoki tona aroha i muri tona he, e pā ana ki nei e koe inaianei kaha pouri.

I roto i tenei take, i te mea pai e taea te tohutohu - tenei aparauraa. Talanoa ki a koutou potiki aroha, ui ratou ki te whakarongo, a ka hoatu he mea, a ka ui tika fakamātoato inoi, me te i roto i tetahi ara tamata ki te riria ia e aroha ana koe ki a ia, engari mo te mahi mīharo koutou whakama. Te whakamārama haere atu noa, hoatu te wa hoa ki te whakaaro i te āhuatanga. A ki te mea ka hoki hei te tino, e kore ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki reira, noho i runga i, pārekareka kau katoa o ratou hononga, me te tango i te tiaki o tetahi ki tetahi.