Me pēhea te ki te houhanga rongo ki tana wahine

e kore e hanga tonu ngā hononga ki waenganui i te iwi tino maheni - i ētahi wā papatu, peapea, papā. E nehenehe te reira tino kino. Ano, he mea katoa ki te whakawhanake i ki te raruraru rawa nui, ina koa, ki te ko te pakanga ki te kotahi aroha. Ki te i koe he hinga atu ki te hoa, he hoa, na e kore e hoatu e te reira koe kia nui te raruraru me te mea i a koutou i te tautohe ki tana wahine. maha i ki fifili pehea ki te houhia ai ki tana wahine i muri i te tautohe maha tangata? whakatika maha titiro ki te kia i runga i wā tino iti take he. Ētahi iwi tautohe e nga tautohetohe puta tino i roto i te mau utuafare katoa. I roto i tetahi take, te whawhai - e kore ko te mutunga o te faaipoiporaa tenei, a ki te hiahia koe ki te tiaki i te whānau, ka hiahia koe ki te ako e founga ki te hanga i te rongo ki tana wahine.

hiahia ana ahau ki te hanga i te rahui i te kotahi: ki te hoatu ake te tuatahi, kahore he mea tino fakamā. He ki te amo i taua te tangata e whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te houhia ai ki tana wahine tuatahi, te mahi te tahi mea rite ngaro i roto i te tura. Te tangata e tamata ki te piri i roto i tona whakapehapeha, e kore e whakaatu i tetahi mau huru sverhzamechatelnyh. Pea, ka tae mai te reira ki te mahi ki te tangata ke, kia ai taua mea āwhina, engari e kore e ina e korero tatou e pā ana ki te whanaungatanga ki te hunga i aroha. Mahalo, ka haere i runga i te houhanga rongo tuatahi, e kore koe e whakaatu tou ngoikore, me to koutou whakaaro nui. Ētahi kaimātai hinengaro mea e he reira pai ki te mahi nei e iti iho riri i te kau e he atu tika huru.

Te kōrero e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te houhia ai ki tana wahine, maha e whakarongo ki te meka e hoki nga wahine maha he tino nui, e kore anake arorau maroke, engari ano hoki kare. Ko nui e kore anake e kei koutou pouri, engari te ara i roto i nei papamuri aronganui ka peitatia ai. Ka taea e koe te mahi i te tahi mea whaiāipo. Hei tauira, hoatu puawai, te reira tino angamaheni, engari i roto i tetahi take mahi pai, me te whakapiki i te tūāhua. Ahakoa he whakapāha, haere tahi e te torutoru nga kupu ngawari, i ētahi wā e taea ki te noho i te ara mo te houhanga rongo.

E te iwi e hiahia ana he aha ētahi atu whakaaro e pā ana ki a ratou. rite ratou te whai wāhi ki te whakaatu i ia ratou i roto i mua o te tahi atu mau taata i roto i te marama pai. Pea koutou wahine tenei tangata. I roto i tenei take ko reira taea i roto i tetahi ara whaiāipo ki te tatarahapa i roto i te tirohanga ki tonu i o te tahi atu mau taata. Hei tauira, ki te tonoa puawai ki tona mahi.

Feruri i roto i pehea ki te hanga ake ki tana wahine i muri i te tautohe ngāwari, e kore e uaua rawa. I roto i te mutunga, e te pai e kore e te nuinga o tupu. Ko reira nui māmā atu i ki te feruri i roto i pehea ki te hanga ki tana wahine i muri i te taiata ake. I roto i tenei take, whai koe i te raruraru nui atu nui, no te mea kua tukua koutou wahine tetahi o te tata tino ki a ia, e ko koe. Kua meinga e koe wharanga rawa nui. e kore e Whakatika tenei kia ngāwari. O te akoranga, e hiahia ana matou he whakapāha, etahi i pakū ohorere o mana'o. He mea nui ki te whakahoki whakawhirinaki, engari e kore e te meka e tupu te reira. Hanga to koutou ora tuwhera atu ki reira, e kore e tinihangatia reira e kore, ara mo te tetahi mea. Kaua e tukua e kore o te take e kore e ki te whakawhirinaki koe.

Ko te tino nui ki te whakaatu i tō wahine e hiahia ana tino koutou, me kahore tetahi ia anake e kore koutou e tiaki hoki reira. Te huri i te reira, e noho koutou i roto i reira kore o whakawhirinaki, na e titauhia koe ki te hoki i te reira ki a ia. More maha kōrero e pā ana ki reira, e hiahia ana koe ki te hanga ite ia e kore koe e hiahia ana tetahi, engari ia. Whakaaturia e e mea faufaa atu ki a koutou atu i nga etahi katoa, patunga tapu tetahi mea hoki ia. Hei tauira, e pai ki te haere vahi ki kia ki a ia, a kia riria ia e Tinihanga - .. tenei hape whakamataku e kore koutou mahia.

I roto i te ora o te tangata katoa e kore he pai, a na reira e kore e taea e tino maheni te hononga i waenganui i te iwi. Ngā wā katoa kia whakatika pakanga, e me e taea ki te hinga. E kore e te pakanga hei take ki te mutunga i te hononga ki te taua hononga tino utu. Me e taea ki te itehia ratou, ki te taea ki te whakarerea noatia koe. I te tuatahi ka mea he tino uaua, engari e kore e te hua tatari mō te ruinga.