Tearfulness - take me te kimi huarahi ki te pehea e

Roimata - Ko te tauhohenga tūturu ki te ngā āhuatanga ora. Tonu i roto i tona tamarikitanga tīmata te tamaiti ki te faaohipa kaha "pūpū roimata," ko te kupu karanga mama (papa, kuí) ki te kōrero me te ki te whakapuaki i te aroha. i roto i tenei ara te koati ta e he makariri ia, ranei tika e hiahia ana ki te kai, e hiahia ana ia ki te whakarongo ki te reo taketake. Otiia e kore e anake e taea e ngā tamariki te whakapuaki i to ratou mau mana'o ki roimata - a maha hoatu pakeke haere noa ratou. iwi katoa, maoro, i reira te karanga, kia rerekē nga take o nei - e rua i te riri, me te pouri, me te oaoa, me te koa.

Karanga te tangata, e kore anake te mea e hiahia ana ia (hei tauira, te mātakitaki i te melodrama aroha kino ranei puta i roto i te utuafare), engari ano hoki take whaiaroaro. Roimata - Ko te faaiteraa o kare, he ahua o te rere hoki te tinana. Te tangata i muri i te pai "ruru-ake" (arā - ka karanga), mana'o pai nui. E ai ki ngā kaimātai hinengaro maha, he mea e tika ana ki te tangi. tauturu i roimata ki te akaanga me te titiro i te ora ki te hou titiro "hou". Kia pehea te maha kotiro taitamariki nei maka takatu karanga ki toku urunga ra katoa. Kia mōhio e whiwhi ratou i roto i te ata, ake kua ki whakaaro tino rerekē me kare. Ki te pehi koe i te putanga o kare te wa katoa, ka taea e te pūnaha io aueue. Na te tahi mau taime te iwi tika i ki te hoatu ara ki te roimata, e kore ki te kino to ratou hauora.

Otiia e kore e he e tika ana nui karanga: tangata e karanga ana tamau e kore e kore anake meinga-tohu whaiaro, engari ano hoki etahi hōhā. I roto i tenei take, te karanga, te take o nei e tino kore mārama - he mea noa rite te mate nui. Ka taea e hauora hinengaro mamae kino, ki te e haere tahi i te roimata mutunga i te kārangirangi, huru iti me te fakaaoao. kia tukinotia te tangata pērā i te mea kia tangi reira corny, engari me te akoranga tenei i roto i te hinengaro, me te tango rongoā.

Tearfulness, nga take o e - e kore e taea e ngā āhuatanga noa te ora, te tikanga o e te tangata e mate ana i te mate hinengaro. Te nuinga o te iwi, rawa wahine, kei te whakaatu i te āhua taua tino pinepine. Tangata, i roto i te rerekē ki te sex ataahua, i te viivii ore o to ratou mātauranga e taea kore tangi. whakaaro taua whanonga te roimata tano ore roa te ora, e taea ki te whakahoki kaha me te pūngao ratou. Otiia ka korerotia ki te whanau o nga tamariki e kore ratou e whai ki te karanga, me te kare katoa e hiahiatia ana ki te aroturuki. Tangata e kore e nei karanga, maha kitea kino huru, pau te me te tau'a. Whakaheke roimata, bawling, tangi tika mo te katoa, ahakoa o tau me te ira tangata o te tangata, engari ki te whānuitanga anake, me te tika anake - ata, marino, a i roto i taime rawa.

Ka taea e kare nui haere tahi e rua ngā pakeke me ngā tamariki iti. Nuinga o ngā wā, he wahine riro rawa ta'i ina ko te tamaiti i raro i te ngakau. E karanga ana i roto i te mea noa hapūtanga, he tonu nga hormones whaea i mua nei i roto i te tere tere, meinga he wahine ki te ringihia roimata i runga i tetahi take.

Otiia ki te mea he tonu mau pakeke kanohi tangata "wahi mākū" i o te whakararuraru, hinengaro, ka tenei me e whawhai. Na te tauturu Ko te kaimātai hinengaro ngaio ranei he toketā neave, ko wai e tali ki te pātai whakaongaonga o ki te maka o arahina. Ko te tikanga, i whakaritea maimoatanga te rite sedatives, te fariiraa i tinctures me otaota, mana Whakapūnoa, me te "mate" e whakaritea ki kare pai. Me koe ki te karapotia koe ki kare hari, me te koa, ki te pehea e ngā pokanoa kino rōpū tuatoru ranei. Na reira te arahina, nga take o e haere mai i te waho, ka taea e waiho te reira mo te wa roa.

E kore te mea te tangata e whakaatu ana kahore kare, nehenehe o te aroha, me te aroha. he tangata taua kowaiwai o te tikanga noa, me te ake rite te karetao.