Whāhau - he ara o te whakawhanaunga

Te tikanga o te kupu "whāhau" - ko te wāhikē o ngā whāinga a Hona i roto i ngā mahi pāpori manakohia. ka te atu tangata he hinonga ahurea, te iti ia i taea e fakamātoato me i roto i te mana tonu ki te faaohipa i to ratou hiahia parapara. Anna Freud whakapono e whāhau - he korero hinengaro, e kore nei e tono ki te neurosis takitahi, a ka whakaata tona whanaketanga noa.

puta te wā "whāhau" tuatahi i roto i te ariā o te psychoanalysis, engari āta timata ki te whakamahi i roto i te ora ia rā o te iwi rerekē. Tenei kupu tikanga me nui haere te tangata pai, me te ngākau ki ona hua tiketike i roto i te hākinakina me te piha haapiiraa tākare rangahau. te maua e whāhau he 'uhinga takoto: kua whakapono reira e te tangata tutuki enei hua mā te aperaa i te ora sex. I roto i te meka - e kore te mea pono tenei, no te mea te whāhau - ko te tiaki o te hiahia fakasekisualé, e whangai ana ki te kia whakatinana i roto i te noa'tu o ngā kawa ahurea, arā, te whakamahi i whāhau tangata rohe i tetahi wahi anake o te pūngao i te taikaha e pai te ka tukua he mahi pāpori manakohia.

Ko te whakamahi o te whāhau i te whakatipu o ngā tamariki

Whāhau - he ara ki te whakamahi mō ngā take pāpori e kore anake o te taikaha fakasekisualé, engari ano hoki pukuriri pūngao. Pukuriri, me te hinaaro moepuku i te taua wāhanga i roto i tona whanaketanga, e whakamahia here rite mo ratou tikanga tiaki. Hei tauira, ki te tamariki ki nui haere fakaaoao sublimate te kore e manakohia ana e noho ana i te reira i runga i te nohoanga, me te mahi i mahi maia i roto i te puka o te mahi, hākinakina, kēmu kaha. Kei te he a'usia tamariki i roto i to ratou taiohi nui haere libido, hiahia hoki te takoto te ritenga. Zigmund Freyd tetahi o te tino nui ngā mahi o te mātauranga kitea i roto i te Taming, mana me te subordination o te hiahia moepuku, kia rite ki tona pakaruhanga Ko te mutunga o te mana o te mātauranga. Energy parapara tūtohu ia ki te tukua atu ki te mahi, i te mea o te faufaa faufaa mo te tiaki o te hapori. I roto i te tau katoa o te whakawhiti pūngao fakasekisualé puta i roto i ngā mahi tau o te tamaiti e hāngai ana. E hoatu Young tamariki te whai wāhi ki te peita, sculpt, hoahoa, me te matua - ki te whakaatu tona angitu rite paetae mātauranga, hākinakina, mahi. whāhau Na kitea. kia tupu tenei i te whaiaro-te tīpako i te tamaiti, a kore e whakaritea e te pakeke.

Whāhau rite te huarahi haumaru teitei

e kore e parepare Psychological mohio e te tangata, engari e taea te tāutuhia ratou i roto i te tātari o ana mahi. Nuinga o ngā wā, hanga ana e ia hei kaimātakitaki. Whāhau - he tiaki e kore e anake e taea te mohio i runga i to ratou ake, engari hangaia ano he tangata e whiriwhiri te mahi ngā rite te ara o te tupato riri kaha, ki te hiahia te whakangaro i te ahanoa nui, me te te kore o te whakapā fakasekisualé tapui. Ka taea e tatou amo e te whāhau - ko te kaha ki te whakahaere i ia, ana instincts me hiahia, tīpako i te ara e manakohia, me te hapori approvable ki te whakatau i te hiahia. Na roto i te whakahaere o ratou ponana, Kōpeke te tangata ana hiahia härukiruki incestuous ranei, te whakatinana ratou i roto i te hanga i te peni, te mahi. A, no te ite mahi rawakore-te kounga whāhau tangata ana ahua pukuriri, me te takoto i roto i te moe, wehi reira ratou instincts me pohehe whakamahi momo atu o te korero hinengaro: tāmitanga, taratahi, faka'ikai'i, intellectualization me etahi atu.

Tata katoa o to matou tikanga, mahi o toi, i tika ki te whāhau whakatutukitanga pūtaiao, no te mea ako iwi ki te pupuri i kore anake ratou instincts kararehe, engari ano ki te whakatika pūngao kïhei mo te whanaketanga o te hapori.