Ko te kaupapa tino ngā mō te kōrero. Me pēhea e whakaaro ahau he kaupapa ngā mō te whakahaere

Te kōrero ki te iwi i roto i te tahi mau puka ranei tetahi atu - ko te wāhi o to tatou oraraa. Me pēhea te ki te hanga i ngahau reira me pārekareka? Hoki ngā take, e kore te iwi katoa e taea e ki te tīmata, te whakawhanake me te mau tonu i te kōrero tūturu. Rawa, ki te whai koe ki te korero ki te tangata tauhou te tangata ranei ki te hunga nei koe i roto i te aroha. He aha ki te mahi? kotahi anake te ara i roto i - ki ako i te toi o te whakahaere tüao. Kei roto i tēnei tuhinga i te kaupapa tino ngā me whakaaro mō te kōrero, e ka tauturu i orient i roto i tetahi āhuatanga, me te tiki i te pai mōrahi i kōrero ki te iwi.

tīmata te kōrero

No te iwi maha, ko reira - te wahi uaua tino o te whakahaere. Kihai hoki i mohio he aha te ki te mea, timata ratou ki te mataku ä, whakama, me te i roto i o te wahi ki te mea i te kīanga. Hei karo i tēnei, te tuatahi o te katoa, ata iho. kia ngahau, e kore fakamamahi'i Communication. Hoki, kia kia raruraru koutou hoa, kahore iti, a tika tamata ki mai ki ngā kaupapa ngā mō te kōrero ake.

titau te Ingarangi e te faingamālie pai mō te here whakahaere tüao - he kōrero o te rangi. tangi te reira corny, engari i roto i ētahi wā tino āwhina hinga mana'o o te whakamā. Ka rite ki te kōwhiringa - ka taea e koe te utu i te whakarongo o te interlocutor i te tahi mea, te mea kei te tupu i muri ki ranei i muri i te matapihi (e tika ana kakahu rerekē, kararehe rerekē, ngā taitara).

Heoi, ka taea e kore tetahi te kī e te tahi atu tangata he hiahia i roto i to koutou parau. Na reira ko te reira pai ki te tākaro haumaru reira. E hari ki te faaite i to ratou whakaaro te nuinga o te iwi, me te kōrero e pā ana ki te pehea ratou e ora. Tenei e kore anake e whakarato kaupapa ngā mō te kōrero, engari ano kia takoto whakamarie.

Ki te matau koutou he iti te tangata, e ui:

• e pā ana ki tona huru ki tetahi āhuatanga;
• e pā ana ki te aha ki te mahi ki tona ora (te wahi i whanau ai ia, ako ia, mahi, haere, mahara e roto i aua wahi);
• Tamariki, ki te koutou interlocutor - matua;
• tutaki ia ki nga rangatira o te whare (ki te tutaki koe i te rōpū).

I roto i te aparauraa i te tangata e kore i kite koe, e ui:

• aha mahi, he aha kua puta ke i roto i to outou oraraa i roto i tenei wa;
• pro whānau, tamariki, te mahi;
• Kua kite ahau ranei hoa tahi.

Korero ana ki a te tangata e kite koe i pinepine (hoa, hoa ākonga, hoa haapiiraa), ui taua tangata:

• pehea i mahi ia te mea i inanahi hou i runga i te wiki ranei;
• pehea te te whānau: matua, tamariki;
• e pā ana ki te mahi (ako) te rongo;
• ongo e pā ana ki te kiriata hou, ngā hōtaka TV, waiata rongonui, ataata, ranei meme, rongo hou, a na i runga i. n.

He aha e taea e ngā ki te kōrero ki te nuinga o te iwi?

Kimihia he kaupapa noa:

• Haere. Places kua kua koutou, kei hea e hiahia ana ratou ki te haere, ka taea e tohutohu ratou.
• āhuatanga e pā ana. Te kai i roto i te wharekai, i runga i te hōtaka TV, he waiata e tangi i runga i te reo irirangi - ko te kaupapa rongonui mō te kōrero i tēnei. I te wa ano e taea e tatou e mahara meka ngā kōrero i te ora, ranei ki te ui tona interlocutor e pā ana ki tona reka, wheako whaiaro, me pera i runga i. D.
• Arearea. Nuinga o ngā wā, rite iwi ki te kōrero e pā ana ki te mea e anaanatae ratou i roto i te ora. A ani i te mau uiraa a te whakaatu moni i roto i te poheraa whakahua koutou runaruna.
• Ko te kaupapa rohe ranei o te ora i roto i ai to koutou hoa pai-matau. Ka taea e koe te ui pātai me te faaite i to ratou ake wheako.

kōrero pai e taea kahore hoa mahu'inga'ia mo'oni ki tahi i te tahi, me te ki te kaupapa o te whakahaere. I waenganui i hoa i reira he kahore raruraru, engari pehea ki te mahi ki te tangata ke?

kia tinihanga

Ki te hiahia koe ki te hanga he ongo pai ki runga ki tona hoa, e hiahia ana matou te tinihangakore, me te ngākau i roto i te mea korero koe ki a matou. Parakore, engari makariri tikanga, me te ataata takoha e pea ki te paingia ratou. korero te oti'a ore - ano; e rite ana ki te whakarongo ki te whaikupu rua tekau-meneti i waho te taea ki te kōkuhu i te kupu?

Hanga i te reira na e ongo'i fiemālie i roto i te whakahaere tahi me koutou te iwi. Titiro ki te hoki e rua o koutou aparau i kaupapa ngā, ngā ngākau nuitanga o te whakaaro takitahi, engari te mea iti e pā ana ki a ratou ano, a anake ka ui. A taea te kīnakinaki: cue e pā ana ki to ratou mahi - he pātai ki te tahi atu rōpū.

He ara pai ki te riro aroha - he haapoupouraa, engari i hanga i te ngakau, me te unbanal.

ki te matapaki i nāianei

Ki te kahore koe e mohio me pehea ki te whakahere kaupapa ngā mō te kōrero, whakaaro e pā ana ki te aha e hiahia ana tatou ki te matapaki i te tangata ki nei e korero koe. iwi whakahoahoa ka whakahere ratou koe he kaupapa, ka tautoko i te reira ngā take anake. Ki te taea interlocutors iti ngutu te matapaki rongo o nāianei (i te tahi mea ahuareka), kiriata hou ranei te tahi mea e pā ana ki te āhuatanga (mahi, kai, pūkenga, he tūemi kakahu pai, ka pera i runga i. N.).

take moni

He aha te ki te katoa o enei kaupapa kua kōrero koe? Na ka taea e koe te whakamahi i te tahi mau uiraa ngā rite te kaupapa o te whakahaere. Hei tauira:

• E hiahia ana koe ki te riro rongonui?
• He aha e noho koutou i te miriona?
• Te kore toru nga mea e kore e taea e koe e ora?
• He aha te koutou moe?
• E whakapono koe i roto i te whakarau (hi'o fetia, poropiti ana)?
• Aha i whai koe i te mōrearea tino ngā?
• He aha ta koutou moemoea (he) ki te kia i te kōhungahunga?
• He aha te tino tau faafaaearaa mo koutou?
• He aha hanga hari koutou?
• He aha te mau huru maitatai e rite koe i roto i te iwi?

Ka taea e koe te whakamahi i enei tetahi atu take ngā ranei mo te kōrero ki te ako e pā ana ki to koutou tahi mea interlocutor hou, me te hanga i te kōrero atu ohorere, me te whakaongaonga. e kore e tika te whakamahi i maha rawa ngā pātai, ka meinga te reira i te tangata fiemālie. Ko te kōwhiringa pai - te here i te reira ki te take i raro i kōrero i te kaupapa kau. Tīmata o te tahi mea te whakahaere, me ngā pātai i te kē interlocutor ki nga wahi iti o te mōhiohio e pā ana ki a koutou.

Mohio nga tō'anga

He aha te mea pai ki te karo:

• mate;
• mau peu kino;
• kai;
• raruraru;
• whanaungatanga, te faaipoiporaa, tamariki (ki te koutou e kore e mohio ki te mana pāpori o te tangata);
• mātua (ohorere te interlocutor te raruraru o te utuafare?);
• take moni;
• karakia, tōrangapū, takoto, me te tahi atu "pahekeheke" kaupapa, e taea te he parau tüao tangata.

A faatumu i ni'ai te interlocutor

Ki te kei te mahi koe i roto i te kamupene, whai wāhi i roto i te kōrero o ngā kaiuru katoa. Whiua ake kaupapa ngā mō te kōrero i roto i ngā pātai, me te kore kia kawea atu ki Monologues roa.

Ki te kite koe i e pokaia te tahi atu tangata te, huri i te kaupapa, me te noho puku, he iti, hoatu he tangata te whai wāhi ki te tango i te kaupapa. Kaua e wehi o tatari a i roto i te whakahaere, ko reira tawhiti kino atu e te mea ki te mea parau tangata hara poauau ore e aore. tauturu te puku poto ki te akaanga me te whakaaro e pā ana ki te akoranga o te whakahaere i mua nei.

Ki te kite koe e kua tarekatia he kaupapa moni i roto i to koutou interlocutor, mahara reira, na te wa i muri ki te kōrero ano e pā ana ki reira. Ki te he te tangata, i runga i te anga ke, te tahi mea te mārama e kore e pai ranei te whakaaro hōhā, tangohia mahara - e kore e nui ake i tēnei take pā.

whakatau whakarāpopototanga

I roto i kōrero i te mea matua - he mahu'inga'ia mo'oni 'i roto i te tangata ki nei e korero koe. I roto i tetahi āhuatanga te kaupapa tino ngā mo matapakinga ko te whai:

• whakaaro whaiaro o koutou interlocutor;
• he āhuatanga i roto i nei e koe (i te rōpū, i mahi, i roto i te waka tūmatanui, me ētahi atu);
• haere (tūturu ranei e hiahiatia);
• poi o te ora, i te mea pai te mōhio o te pūtake;
• ka hemo, a te rongo pai;
• kiriata, waiata, ngā pukapuka, runaruna, hākinakina;
• pātai e akiaki e whakaaroaro.

Ahakoa te kōrero - tetahi o nga mea uaua tino ki te mahi i roto i to tatou oraraa, heoi e taea te ako i te reira, ki te whai koe i te ngākau i roto i te mea ka korero te mea atu te iwi e hiahia ana.