E kore ahau e nehenehe e feruri o te mea ki te mahi me te pehea, ki te āwhina i koe?

I te tahi vahi i roto i te ora tata oho nga wahine parapara whaea me te hiahia ki te riro i te whaea. Ki etahi tupu tenei wawe nui mo etahi waimarie mai tenei parapara tika i muri i te kōwhiri i te hoa ora, me te tahi atu e wa, i ētahi wā hoki he wā roa, i roto i te tikanga ki te ite i te hiahia mō te metua vahine. Otiia i roto i tetahi take, ka tae mai tenei parapara ki ope, he wahine e whangai ana ki te tiki hapu. Na, kāore, e kore e angitu tonu reira tonu.

"E kore e taea e ahau te tiki hapu, aha ki te mahi?" - hira take whakaoho taua, Huinga maha o te wahine. I te tahi taime ko te take mo te aitua mau tonu i reira, engari wheako wā nga wahine. Na i runga i te rārangi take e hiahia ana tino te pātai ki te tiki hapu, aha ki te mahi i roto i tenei take?

Ko te tohutohu tuatahi, me te tino whai hua - mutu te io, te aitua, ka tīmata i tō ara ki te whāinga. Ki te he i waenga i 20-35 tau o tau koutou tau, me te kore i kitea e koe i te mārama predisposition ki pākoko, pea e kore te mea pera uaua katoa. Hei tīmata, ngana ki te tātai i te wa o te kano i roto i tona huringa - te tikanga e pā ana ki 2 wiki i muri i te tīmatanga o te paheketanga. Ko enei ra tino pai mo te haputanga. Ki te mahi koe i reira koe e kore e mahi i, he mea e tika ana ki te matapaki i tenei take ki to koutou rata mātai.

Na amuamu maha wahine, "E kore ahau e taea te tiki hapu." He aha te mahi i te takoto ataahua i roto i tenei take? Hei timata, whakaaro e pā ana ki te nui o te wā i kua koe me tou hoa mahi i runga i haputanga? He maha noa maitai hauora hua wahine me te tangata i runga i nga marama maha e kore e taea e hapu i te tamaiti, ahakoa he pai āhuatanga katoa. Tīmata ki te whiua te āwangawanga tuatahi kia, ki te tino noa mō te hauora o te tamaiti e kore e whiwhi i roto i 6-9 marama.

Na, kua matau kotahi koutou: "E kore ahau e taea te tiki hapu." Aha ki te mahi i te tuatahi? Me whakaaro anō rātou ara o te ora. Ko iti pea hapūtanga, ki te koutou:

- Smoking;

- inu waipiro (ranei whakamahi wā ratou hoa);

- noho i runga i te kai tino - to koutou tinana kia hapa noa nga rauemi ki te haputanga;

- He tonu i raro i te ahotea;

- i roto i te hiahia o te whakatikatikanga taimaha;

- Kua tata kua mate ki tetahi mate, me te whai i te immunocompromised.

Ki te he tetahi tetahi o enei āhuatanga e wātea ana, kia kia whakakahoretia o reira. kia whakamārama hoki koe ki te hoa e hiahia ia ki te mau tonu i te oranga hauora ki te hohoro riro i te papa.

He aha e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi i ki te tiki hapu? Kotahi matamata e pā ana ki tenei: e kore e tamata ki te kia whakairihia ake ki runga ki tona hiahia. E na "raru" i roto i tenei hiahia ētahi wahine, ara whakaritea mai peita aroha i runga i te hōtaka te kikiritanga tino pea. Otiia e kore e āhua rite ki te pokanoa ki a ia mahere. Whakamātauria ki te aroha tetahi ki tetahi ki te hoa, a kihai ki ofati ratou kaiao i roto i ngana ki te tiki hapu. Na ka pea atu e tupu te reira i i tahaki.

Well, ki te whai koe i te kore e enei tohutohu katoa te āwhina, ka, o te akoranga, ka hei te taahiraa i muri mai i te hahaereraa ki te tākuta mō te hunga e tonu whakamamaetia e te whakaaro: ". E kore ahau e taea te tiki hapu" Aha ki te mahi i muri, parau ia te reira. Ka meinga te mātanga tātaritanga hauora mahere mahi, kōwhiringa maimoatanga me te āwhina i ētahi atu tohutohu mahi i roto i tenei mea i ahuareka ai.