Open hononga: aroha, kahore ture whakawhirinaki mutunga ranei?

Ki te tika pā he hononga tuwhera koe iwi tata ki a koutou ranei, he mea e tika ana ki te Whakatikaina te ariā. E hanga ana e ia ite i te taua kaiuru o te "reka" tūranga ki te haumi i roto i te parau "hononga tuwhera"? Mai i, i roto i te meka, o ngā putanga he tokorua herenga ki tahi i te tahi? whakaaro tangata me nga wahine e pā ana ki reira i roto i ara rerekē, kia rite ki tona āhua.

Whakaaro wahine mātanga

Nuinga o ngā wā, whakaae te wahine ki tenei momo o te whanaungatanga mo te wa tuatahi, tumanako puku e ka huri i te mau mana'o o te tangata, ka papatairite ake, tino hopea mauruuru tona utu, a ka kia whakamahia ki, i roto i te mutunga, ka meinga he tuku. Ko te wāhi tino noa o te tirohanga, me te tino mōrearea mō te wahine whakamarie hinengaro tenei.

Ko te wāhi o te tirohanga o te wahine pakihi

Whakatuwheratia hononga mo te wahine pukumahi whakamarie. I roto i tenei take, e kore e hiahia ana i te reira ki te kia raruraru i take ki te whakarite i ngā kai, auri na, me ētahi atu wāhanga o te ora te utuafare. Ko ongo'i wahine pakihi mohio me rite te wahine, no te mea kihai i ia anake.

Ko te tūranga o te wahine i whakarerea,

Ka haere i roto i te faaipoiporaa i taka, e kore e he wahine e hiahia ana ki te anō-taahiraa i runga i te rake kotahi. Open hononga - ko reira tika te mea e hiahiatia ana e ia i te kau. Ko rite rite te roa rite kore reira e haere ki raro, whanau o te tamaiti.

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Open hononga hoki te tangata - ko, ki runga ake te katoa, haere noa o mau taatiraa, te mea kahore herenga ki te hoa. Peia atu o te tangata, me te hiahia ki te pūrongo i runga i te āhua o me ki nei ki te noho i te ahiahi.

Ko te whakaaro o te tangata whai hoa

Ki te kore te mea te tangata makona ki te hononga takoto ki tona wahine, engari e kore ia e hiahia ki te whakarere i te mea o tenei (ki te whai koe i tamariki tahi, ka ora tahi hoki nga tau maha), ka taea e te reira te riro i te kaitautoko o te hononga tuwhera.

Tūnga paetahi whakapumautia

Wehi o te kawenga, me te mate o te haere noa aia e whakaaro o enei tangata. Ratou whakaaro, me te ratou whakamārama nga tangata punarua kē tūturu.

Ko te heke mai o whanaunga free

Hae me te tikanga o te rangatiratanga o te hoa i roto i te hononga tuwhera ngarotanga i. e kore ai rua wahine me te tangata kia mōhio o te hononga whakarara o ratou hoa. Heoi, i reira he tonu te ati o te ngaro i te kotahi aroha, ki te ka timata te whakamutunga ki te wheako mana'o hohonu mo te tangata e "i te taha". Ranei ki te mea he tangata, ia ohorere, ohorere (tae noa ki a ratou) e taea e te matua. E kore e taea e tatou tau'a ore i te meka e faarahi he hononga tuwhera te mōrea o kirimana mate, te mate paipai.

Ko wai e kore e mahara i te rongonui e mea e he reka te hua rahuihia anake. Kia Ko te hononga i te taha o te whiwhi faingamālie ture, moni i roto i te haerenga riro. E maha arata'i ki te whanaungatanga roa, me te kaha, ki te hoa e rua ki te hiahia marena.

Noho tahi taea te whakawhanake me te hōtuhi te mahi tahi o te faaipoiporaa whakaaro. Ko te tikanga tenei whakatau takitahi pakeke nei e ko atu nui atu i mana'o whare whakamarie.

A, no te matau āta koutou rite pehea matau koutou hoa he hononga tuwhera, ka anake ka taea ki te hanga i te pai rawa tika hoki koe koe.