Tāutunga - Ko te tikanga o te tiaki ki te kaipahua, motu

Anna Freud, ui te puku kaitaua, ka haere mai ki te mutunga e te libido me fakaaoao e tetahi me te puna kotahi - te tangata te kohatu, me te whakawhanake haere te taua ture. Wāhanga o te whanaketanga o ponana pukuriri - te taua rite i roto i te whanaketanga o ponana libidinal, a ka whai rite ngā tikanga tiaki, ka rite ki E tata hono ratou. Ko kua etahi ahurei te puku kaitaua tikanga tiaki: te karere, me te tāutu me te wahine taikaha.

I runga i te tauira o te mahi ki te tamariki te whakaaro Anna Freud rave rahi kōwhiringa mo te hanganga o te korero hinengaro - tāututanga ki te wahine taikaha:

1) Ka taea e te tamaiti te tāutu ki te whanonga pukuriri o te tangata e wehi ana ia. I roto i tenei take, te tāututanga - te faaau te reira ki tetahi atu tangata i roto i tona kīanga kanohi, mahi, kare image. Hei tauira, he tamaiti nei, kia rite ki te whare kaiako 'anga "i roto i te mau haapiiraa, anake faahiti tona mata e i mārika i holomui i te taha.

2) I roto i te tikanga ki te hinga i te wehi o ngā tamariki e taea te takitahi haere ake ki te ara ki te tiaki ki reira, tukurua i te mahi halá wahine taikaha taea. Ko te kotiro nei i wehi o kēhua, i whakapono ia i roto i te kauhanga pouri, i roto i te tikanga ki te hinga tenei wāhi ka mau nui poipoia ia ona ringa rite ai whai ia ki te mahi i te wairua. I roto i taua āhuatanga, te tāututanga - he hokinga whakamuri tūranga ina whiwhi i te tamaiti ki te tūranga ahanoa ri'ari'a iho riro te wahine taikaha.

3) Kei te maha tāutuhia ngā tamariki ki te ahanoa waho, me te kaha o tona fakaaoao. He fehangahangai ki te kaiako ka motokia omaoma, ka haere mai he tauira ki te kura te ra i muri ki rerekē momo o patu, e ngana ki te uru tana kaha, kaha, tamatane. I roto i te vairaa mau, kihai i whakaatu te kaiako fakaaoao, kihai ia i rapu i ki whiua te tamaiti, a ka kua whakakitea mai te tamaiti e kore e pera te nui fakaaoao, te tini o ngā huarahi ki te tiaki ki taea mahi pukuriri katoa o nga tangata kaha. I roto i taua āhuatanga, te tāututanga - he faaiteraa o te superego puta o te tamaiti, ka kore e whakaatu i te ākonga fakaaoao, a ka kitea e te ara ki te aukati i te reira i roto i te ara o te tiaki i mua nei. I tua atu ki te rironga o patu o te tamaiti taua taea timata ki te whai wāhi i roto i hākinakina, te whakanui ake i to ratou kaha uaua.

4) kēmu kaha, maha faaite tamariki timata te kino, ako'i tona attraction, ahakoa ki a ratou e kore e ki te mahi i te tetahi mahi o fakaaoao i ngā pakeke hoa ranei. I roto i te tautuhi kēmu kaitaua - he ahua o whakangungu te puku kaitaua ka taea te tango i te te kaipahua, ā-te puka o te toa, taniwha, Terminator ranei.

Identification ki te wahine taikaha - ko reira he tukanga noa o te ture o tona attraction, e taea te whakaakona ki te awhina o wawata, kēmu, hākinakina. te whakamahi i te taiao tamariki asocial ratou fakaaoao ki te tāutu ki te rōpū o te tahi atu Ngapuhi te ki te waiho i te rōpū o "ratou" wahi o te ope tukituki whānui. Identification i roto i te utuafare puta i roto i te tamaiti ki ētahi atu tino, me to ratou mau huru o huru, arā, tāutu o te tangata - ko te tukanga o te whanaketanga o te tamaiti, tahitanga ki ētahi atu iwi, kahore he mea ki te mea e tupu te tāutu attraction: pukuriri libidinal ranei.

faarahi te kaha o nga puku pukuriri rite te roa rite ki te riria ai tae noa kore e taea ki te whakahaere i te reira i te tamaiti e kore e he, maheni ki tona kaha, me te kaha. Ka taea e hara tutu riro rite te tamaiti, e te tino riria ana ki te whakaatu fakaaoao, me te tetahi e whakakitea uncontrollably me tonu. tautuhi whare whakawā, arā whakamāramatanga o matimati taihara, reo ranei te tahi atu āhuatanga o te töpü, te reira anake mutu, engari e kore e whakaoti te raruraru o tona fakaaoao. Psycho-ako mahi ki te kaipahua, ā e tonu "vēkeveke" ki te whakapuaki ia ratou, kia kawea i roto i te wawe tau, puku whakangungu, te whakahaere i te reira, me te whakahaere i te reira.