Ture o te kōrero ki te hoa. ture Psychological o kōrero

Pea ka e miharo te tangata, engari kōrerorero ki hoa ngā piri ki etahi ture. Ka rangatira ratou te iwi wawe, te whanaungatanga pai e kia hanga e te reira ki ētahi atu. Kei te whakapono te reira e kia kia mārama i runga i te taumata pūmanawa nga ture o te kōrero ki te hoa, engari wheako io te ritenga. Tino maha kei te te mamae te tangata i ona ake mo'emo'e, miharo pono aha nunumi atu i reira iwi. Ka taea e te take e maha. E rave rahi mau taata ahu ki te tau'a ore to ratou ake tōnounoú, ki tau'a ore kōrero o ētahi atu iwi, whakaaro ki a ratou kia he kiko o. Ko reira te mea he raruraru o te kōrero, ano, riro te reira akiaki, me te whānui.

A e kore e he hoa, e kore te hoariri, a

He he he kāwai o iwi tino kore e hiahia ana ki te kōrero ki te. Misanthropy, hermits, introverts - he tika, he torutoru tūāhua e utu te hunga e hiahia i te rōpū ngangau o te tūmataiti oti. Ko ratou kotahitanga, me te nuinga o te taupori wheako etahi hūhi i te kore o te kōrero ora. Hei whakatika i te āhuatanga, e hiahia ana koe ki te ako i te ture o te kōrero ki te hoa. I tenei wā, ko reira utu tono he maha o ngā pātai:

1) i e ahau he hoa pai?

2) ka haere mai ahau ki te faaoraraa o te hoa, ki te ui ia mo tokoni?

3) E kore ahau e te he iwi i te kupu, mahi ranei?

4) Ko maite nui ahau?

5) ki te taea e arahi ahau he mātau, whakahaere mārohirohi?

6) Kati te ahau whanaketanga erudite me ki tonu o te tuakiri ki te hei o te moni ki ētahi atu?

whakautu Faitotonu ki enei pātai ohie e meinga he pikitia tetahi.

ngaro o te auhoaraa

Ka rite ki te tikanga, he aroha whanau i roto i te kōhungahunga, me te mea he waimarie koe, ka haere i roto i te ora. e kore e he hononga taua kia haukotia, ara, ki te e mahue iwi mō pa rerekē me wheketere o te utuafare. Ki tenei, me ki feinga mo.

Heoi, i reira te mea he tūranga he: me manako ahau katoa hoki te hunga e ahau ahau. Ko te pohehe nui tenei. kia titau ora katoa tangata ki te pai, ki te whai wāhi i roto i te mātauranga-whaiaro, ki te whakarongo ki te fakaanga, me te whakatau. e kore e taea e te tangata i runga i te atamira kotahi, kei te rānei whakawhanakehia reira iti ranei. O te akoranga, e hiahia ana te katoa ki te kite i roto i te porohita o tona hoa te hunga e ngana ana ki te riro atawhai, atu maramarama, pai mātauranga. Ko ma'i pee te tauira pai. Ki te he i reira te hiahia, ka te reira te wā ki te neke i runga i ki tohutohu mahi. Ture o te kōrero ki te hoa e:

1) Play. Pea ko te tikanga matua tenei. taea ki te faaite i te moni haavare ore ki te kōrero o te interlocutor Ehara i te katoa ko te.

2) e kore e noho puku. Aruaru a kōkuhu he kōrero rite, o te akoranga e kore he, utu reira, engari mahi he e kore e taea anake, engari e tika ana kōrero e hāngai ana, me te mohio.

3) Kia tūpato ki te hoatu tohutohu. Pea ki te puna o to ratou whanga, engari utu reira tangohia i runga i tenei fatongia? No te mea i roto i te mutunga e taea te kitea e koe he.

4) te whakatau hoa ki te noho tahi wa. Kupu matua - "tahi". Ko Ko te aha e kore kia paraharaha koe ki te kokonga ki te waea, me te titiro pouri i runga i tona hoa, i whakaware kōrero i to koutou taonga tākaro tino.

Basics ritenga

Ki te ture timatanga o te ritenga e mohio katoa. Ko ariā me ratou tono i roto i te mahi - e kore ko reira te mea ano. Ture o te kōrero ki te hoa - he pūtaiao katoa, e whai ana ki te ako i ia tangata, ngenge o te anake. ritenga Friendly ta e kore e taea e koutou:

1) Te tuku i roto i tetahi atu tūranga tuke. Tenei te tikanga e te tino riria ana ki te ui mo tetahi taurewa i rawa fakapotopoto rapua e mahi tere e puhoi ranei.

2) uaua ki te whakatutuki i ngā tono Kakau. Hoa ka waiho he tikanga o te hara i te meka e kore i taea e ki te āwhina i ia.

3) rawa pinepine ani i te tauturu. Maoro ranei i muri mai, timata i te auautanga taua ki te whakararuraru i, a ka tamata iwi ki te aukati i te kōrero, whakaaro e te whakamahia ai.

4) ki te hanga i te kupu whakaari, me te kore whakarite i. meinga taua mahi ki te kia whakama i roto i tahi e te tahi.

ao mariko

Kua riro te Internet i roto i te ora o te katoa, me te riro i te wāhi o reira. whatunga Social whakakapi kōrero ora, ehara i te mea maere e reira he ture o kōrero Ipurangi ki hoa. tuatahi, me te tuatahi te whakahau ko i runga i ngā karere ka tonoa ki hoa, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakahoki kupu. iwi e te hunga i runga i te tukutuku I te tahi taime, hiahia ki te tau'a ore ia ratou. Here ti'a ia tatou ia digress, a ka whakaaro te āhuatanga taua. tutaki matou hoa e rua:

- Hello.

- Hello.

- Me pēhea te e koe?

kihai interlocutor tetahi mea i whakahoki, tahuri ia, a haere atu ana i roto i te puku. Wahangu. Ko te he aha puku i runga i te tukutuku.

Ano, e kore e tukua atu te hoa he pikitia rorirori, me te wawau. Kaua rawa. Mahalo ko te rawa ngahau, me te ngā tenei, engari ohorere te tangata he pukumahi kore noa ranei i roto i te huru. Ka whai ia ki te hanga i te kaha ki te urupare ki tenei karere horihori.

I roto i te ao i teie mahana o te peu ahua e hiahia ana ki te kia maka atu, - te whakatau i te ngä. Hei tauira, "ATP" hei utu o "whakawhetai koe", "pzhl" hei utu o "tēnā." He ataahua, me te taonga reo Russian. Ko reira nui atu ahuareka ki te kōrero ki te tangata e nona te reira ki te tino, nui atu i pakeke-hononga te kupu e rua i roto i te rerenga kōrero me te wehiwehi arero-here rerekē.

Ko te raruraru o whanaunga ki kaungākalasí

Tau o te ako manatu ki te mahana me te here. Ka maoro, whakaaro tangata katoa e pā ana ki te wa tawhiti ka ko ia he kura māhorahora. Ko koroingo haere mai tekau tau, a i te reira kia kia raruraru i roto i te whanaungatanga ki te hoa. Āwhina karo ratou nga tikanga o te kōrero ki te hoa haapiiraa. Ko te tika ki te whakapuaki rongonui reira: Hamani iwi te ara e hiahia ana ki a ratou te hamani koe a koutou. tikanga o tēnei e kore e taea te hoatu e koe i tapaina a ino kata hauātanga, whakahawea me te anga mālohi. Ēnei pono banal ki kia ako, ka āwhina i ratou hanga i te hononga pai ki te hapori.

Ka taea e ahau teka ki o koutou hoa?

Pea ka kia miharo te tangata, engari i ētahi wā ka taea e koe teka ki tou hoa. Ture pehea ki te kōrero tika mea e tonu kia waiho koutou tangata tika, me te fakamātoato, engari no te mea te ariā o "takoto ma" e kore kua whakakorea. Na i roto i te mea ngā āhuatanga i te tohunga rawa whakaaetia? He tika te teka ka taea te pono arahi ki te whakama noa ati ranei. Hei tauira, ui he kotiro hiamoe: "au kino ahau" he ka taea ki te hoê pahonoraa papû i ki tenei pātai? Aroha o te pono, o te akoranga, ka mea e me korero tonu koe i te pono. Otiia ki te hiahia te tangata ki te ui tenei uiraa, e tika? takoto tika ano, ina tae mai te reira ki te whakaora ora, rangatiratanga, me te honore.

Me pēhea te ki te waiho i te pai hoa?

kaituhi Wīwī ka mea a Michel de Montaigne, "I roto i te auhoaraa i reira he kahore tātai atu, engari ia." Na he aha te mea i ētahi wā atawhai, me te he uaua tangata tuwhera mō te kōrero ki te iwi? e tauturu i te Ture o te kōrero angitu ki te huri i te āhuatanga mō te pai. A ki te mea te tikanga paerewa o te kōrero, me te whanonga mohiotia ki tangata katoa i kōhungahunga, ka taea e te mita mohio atu kia te kitea maere. ture hinengaro o te kōrero - he mea he raau rapaau no te amo iho i runga i te wairua o te mo'emo'e:

• Ka āwhina i ngā ārai kōrero ki te hinga i te Papatūānuku ngā pūkenga kōrero.
• Mana ki runga i to ratou ake kare - ko tenei te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te whakawhanake i roto i a ratou ano.
• Kitea taea ki te whakarite ki te interlocutor, fakapapau'i reira painga mōrahi i te pāhekoheko.
• Ko te kaha ki te whiriwhiri i te kaupapa - te matua ki te angitu. Ki te tātari koe he tauira ohie, te tangata ki toru haapiiraa teitei, e korero ki te kaimahi noa, kihai i kōrero o Ariā ka arahi Barrow ranei i runga i te rangahau o nāianei i roto i te mara o iranga. kaupapa tauhou hoatu interlocutor ki te mutunga mate, a ka ka raruraru ia.
• Ko te kupu reka mo tetahi tangata - ki tona ake ingoa. I roto i kore te mea e tika ana takoto ki depersonalize te interlocutor, kia ko whakapā.
• mahi ataata Friendly whakamiharo.